If you're in a pre season playing against shite teams and getting big wins really raises morale. Team meetings always seem to work for me too.
I swear by 4-3-3 with a defensive midfielder. One out and out winger supporting with an inside forward attacking, backed up by overlapping full backs. Key is finding the right personnel.
I typically run that exact same setup, have for the last few versions of FM. However in my last save with Stuttgart I've gone completely off script. Got a team that was predicted to finish 14th to finish 6th in the first season and now I'm 3rd in season two behind Bayern and Leverkusen.
---------------CF (S)---------------
IF (A)--------SS (A)----------AP (S)
---------------------DP (D)----------
----------SV (S)---------------------
CWB (S)--CD (D)---BD(C)----CWB(A)
--------------SK (A)-------------------
I usually attack down the right. My RW drifts inside to work with the SS and DP, leaving acres of space out wide for my attacking fullback. Since the opposition fullback gets drug inside to deal with the overload on the right my fullback has all kinds of space to get in crosses.