That's boring though.
I would rather travel the world and live a little then sat looking at my bank balance.
You only live once!!!
You're right mate, you do only live once, and from being 21 years old I have followed that mantra, and I found myself in the shit because of it.
I was always earing big money, and enjoyed the trappings of a 'kid' on a grand a week 20 years ago. Fast cars, out on the ale every night, etc, I didn't need to save money, I earned it quicker than I could spend it.
Then the building game collapsed, had to sell my car, had to stop going out. Basically lived like a hermit for 12 months.
I've had a few periods in my working life where I've been on serious wages, but spunked the fucking lot.
In 2004/5 I was earning £656 a week after tax, I decided I was gonna fully embrace the European cup. Went to every game, barring Juventus and Olympiakos away games.
Paid 400 notes for a ticket in the Mathew Harding stand, paid 400 for a ticket to the final, never baulked at paying a fiver a pint in the beer tent at Sabia Gochen, 9 hrs I was in there, but it didn't matter because I was 'loaded'. That year I spent over 4 grand, just on the European cup.
Now then, do I wish I'd have put some away ? Fucking dead right, especially when we had to sell our £275k house because we couldn't meet the mortgage payments of £850 a month due to a back injury.
Between 2004, and 2009,my 'worst' year was £47k gross profit, my wife was a Paramedic on almost £30k a year, but we had a least 3 foreign holidays a year, new cars, big posh grade 2 listed detached house, 3 grand watches a piece, but fuck all in the bank.
Don't get me wrong, certain parts I wouldn't swap for anything, but you tend to get swept along on a tidal wave of spending.
I'd suggest to OP that if he can realistically save 500 a month then put the first 500 under the mattress, keep it there for treats, and/or emergency money. Every pay day thereafter, top the fund back up to 500, and what's left put it well out of reach.
Having money is not the be all and end all, but it sure takes the sting out of being poor.