Just about to move to Oz for my other half (been together just over 5 years, engaged for 18 months, she's Aussie, we met while I was living out there a few years ago and have lived together both over there and for the last few years over here).
All in all I'm excited and ready to make a go of it but fuck me it doesn't half put a strain on the relationship when we disagree about something, invariably the first thing that comes into my head is "I sacrificed being near my family and long-term friends just for [insert trivial item that has caused argument here]". Especially when her extended family (Aussies of Italian heritage) start getting into her ear and telling her what she should and shouldnt be doing etc etc
Plus we still have the whole wedding to organise over in Oz and she's definitely got a Bridezilla streak in her, again all I can think is "a load of my friends won't be able to make it because we had it in Oz so your family could all be here, and you're arguing about the venue/cake/music/[insert other trivial thing here]". And again, her mum and aunties all want to stick their oar in and tell us how we should do our wedding, unfortunately my mrs doesn't seem to have it in her to tell them to bugger off so it ends up instead of feeling like "Us against the world" it feels like "Me against her and her extended family".
Grrrrr.