Indeed. Soon after he became a point of view character I started to see things from a different angle and worked out that Jamie most of all was put in the damned if he did and damned if he didn't positions more than most. I haven't read the fifth book yet but I have to say I never despised Jamie as much as Cersei even in books one and two. For some reason, I felt that he might be an arrogant bastard but at least he had the skill to back it up. Similar to the Knight of Flowers in that respect I suppose. Never the most modest but he could clearly back it up. Interested to see what happens with him. His character seemed to be taking a turn towards prominence before it was kinda cut short in book 4.
Jamie is a flash, dishonourable, arrogant, sister fucking, child defenestrator for the first part of the series (and a great deconstruction of the noble knight trope) but what he goes through with Brienne and once we get his viewpoint it reveals so much about him and his motivations. He genuinely learns the error of his ways and wants to be honourable and do good, making up for his past. I think deep down he was always a good person (he constantly made his disgust known about King Aerys general evilness and he actually killed him for a just reason) but the king slaying and Cersei's manipulations got to him
More pity than admiration though I think?
Yeah, pity more than anything really. Having him constantly humiliated and tortured by the only character who is more cuntish than Joffrey will do that I suppose.
I always associate Theon with Pete Campbell from MadMen. Both have done pretty horrendous things, but in the end I think they're both just little boys trying oh so hard to be men in a world full of proper men.
FWIW, I thought the best stuff in ADWD usually involved Theon.
That's a great comparison. Theon comes across as pathetic more than bad. He is so desperate to impress and prove himself that it leads him to do bad things, he is very immature too. He also has awful things happen to him that forces him to reevaluate himself.
I think the TV show portrayal of him has added even more to him, he was arguably the highlight of season 2 in terms of character work.