So how do you deal with a situation where your wife wakes you up in the middle of the night crying her eyes out and saying she can't go on any more? "Call the out of hours HTT" - "They won't be able to help." "Call the Samaritans." - "They won't be able to help either. "Talk to me then." "You can't take the pain away for me."
Fuck me, I wish I could take the pain away from here.
I'd take it into a locked room with no windows and kick the fucking living shit out of her pain until it begged for mercy then I'd start over. I'm so angry and confused and helpless.
How the hell can you deal with an abstract that is literally killing your soul mate and it feels like there's fuck all you can do?It literally breaks my heart to see her like this.
I've tried everything I can think of, all the interventionalist techniques I know, I've consulted her psych and cpn who just say to be patient yet I can see her descending further into hell, I've tried confronting it, placating it, ignoring it and trying to instill a sense of normality, we've moved house and are in our own space again, we have a new kitten to replace Matilda who died 2 months back - I had hoped it would help her settle - nothing is working - I'm shit out of ideas.
Advice needed.