I wonder how many of you would accept a whack across the arse from a traffic warden for parking on double-yellows?
In reply to this and the other one about girlfriends etc. I think the big difference is the fact that they are kids and have to be taught right from wrong, being
raised to learn what they can do and cant do. Big difference between that and a warden and the like, I'm sure you'd agree.
I'm a big believer in it anyway. I was always a good kid at home, always have been respectful to others, well mannered etc etc but at school I'll admit i was a bit of a shit. Not as bad as some Ive seen but I'm sure the teachers prayed to god they could do more than give me a detention. That kind of punishment just wasn't a punishment at all so i never feared anything. At home if i acted up my mum would give me the slipper. That always kept me in line.
There are of course boundaries and the right amount only when deemed necessary is the way to go i reckon. An example Ive given before is to draw up the similarities in the animal world, when a lion cub acts up its mother doesn't refuse it anything, she gives the little blighter a nip and the wee fella knows the score after that!
Its not abuse, that's just the modern world gone mad, its the way of the world if anything.