I don't know you from Adam, but you seem like a good bloke to me and it would be a shame to lose you from the forum. I totally get what you mean about some threads/boards and I'll be honest I'm scared to even contribute to some of them as I'm not on here for an argument and can do without people getting snarky at me. Obviously everybody's experience of this place will be different as they want, or need, different things from it at times so it's easy for me, or others, to just say "avoid certain areas". As others have said, maybe take a break and see how you feel.
I keep coming back because this place makes me laugh like a drain at times so I just try and focus on that.
Also imagine not being part of this community (or the fairly sizable decent part of it anyway) when Hendo is next lifting some whacking great big bit of silverware above his head and Klopp's acting the loon on a bus after 15 bottles of lager.