Probably because you’ve never had to deal with changing your gender.
I really don’t see the problem. It was done with sensitivity and wasn’t lingered on at all - certainly not in the way it would be discussed among a real life family.
Really enjoyed this season. Klaus, 5 and Lila where the stars. Hargreavess was pretty interesting too.
firstly i disagree with the highlighted point but that's already been covered by andy's post etc, sooooooo anyway
my 'point' isn't anything to do with gender changes, personal decisions about facets of life whatever they may be or a whole multitude of 'life changing' events that a person can experience between seasons in currently running shows, be that positive or negative
what did jar on me was writing people's real lives into a show that has nothing to do with the show whatsoever, yeah let's see more of that please, and we're talking about a profession where the core element of the job is to be someone you are not (unless it's autobiographical and you are that person - a rare thing) - page has done this all his acting life (and he's good at it, to boot), vanya is a role, he never was vanya, he could never do what vanya could, and i'd take a wild guess that his personality is different from the character of vanya
the change was meaningless to the show and totally unrelated to anything in it, anything
so 'just dont see the point of it all' is exactly where that gesture lies - it's the umbrella academy, what was the point of the gender change? there was no point