And let me add that while Sterling ran himself to the ground and gave his all, and despite his being very active in the last 20 mins or so, his performance, objectively viewed, was disappointing. His reception/first touch of long(ish) passes was atrocious, bordering on the comical. Having been blessed with access to La Liga matches for the first time this season (my cable provider finally added beIN Sport), I had the misfortune of comparing our players' first touches/ball reception to those of actually technically proficient players: Jesus wept.
I agreed with most of your post but this was the aspect of the game that most frustrated me. Sterling really needs more time in training to work on this first touch because playing him so often in matches will ingrain this bad habit even more. All his pace and trickery is useless when he miscontrols the pass so often. It allows defences to settle and push him away from danger - or more often, disposes him easily.
Add to this our ponderous use of the ball, apparent unwillingness to take chancy runs into the box and general lethargy in possession, and of course teams are going to defend deep an counter. The recycling of the ball after a stalled attack is slow and amazingly predictable - across the 20-30 metre zone, sideways, back a little, over to Sterling, run with it for a few yards before losing the ball or stalling and then rinse and repeat. Even after we scored, with just a few minutes left on the clock, we trod the same slow path. Maybe the players had already given up.
The optimist in me says that perhaps, like any new way of doing this, you've got to learn slow and then speed it up. The pessimist tells me that there aren't even slow cutting passes being tried - little or no invention. Yet the first 15 minutes seem to give that the lie, so I continue to be hopeful. Nonetheless, I am firmly in the reality check camp. We are improving a tad, and there will always be good wins and setbacks, and this will be for a while yet. Winning teams take a long, long time to build the needed consistency.
I support Brendan as our manager, and hope for the best. I can sort of see what he is trying to do, though I wish sometimes for more flexibility. (Though again, when you're bedding down a way of doing things, mixing it up every couple of games can be fatal, so I can understand him being obdurate). I worry about his apparent favouritism, but since I'm not a Premiership manager, it's not for me to gainsay his choices. I worry about his choices in the transfer market, but it's really early in the day to judge him (I always used to argue that Rafa was a great judge of talent, but if you take choice of one window in his reign you could prove him either a genius or a clown depending on your position). We'll get more of an idea this January, but it's a constrained market so I'll be more interested in next July. I do wish that he would be more circumspect with his commentary. The 'second place' stuff was unhelpful and sets us up for mockery. Let's achieve on the pitch, Brendan, let the media sort their own quotes.
It takes a long time to rebuild any team, and I'm not unduly worried. I could do without losses like Saturday's but football would be somewhat dull if there weren't reverses on the ride. Equally, as fans we must stop with the condescension to teams like Villa. They mugged us good and proper, and we should never take anyone lightly. There's no guaranteed points just because of our history, and when we are champions again, there won't be any guaranteed points then either.
Finally, my 'hated' team has always been Nottingham Forest. Jumped up wannabes that got in the way too often in those great days, and full of themselves with it. No longer hate them though. There but for the grace of God an' all....