Its a very fair question and i know pure abstinence is for the best all round scenario. As Jason has said , and i know you lot will laugh at this, but i just want to try an have a normal life. You know, a normal gf, a normal job, responsibilities that come with all that and yes, after a long hot day at work its now nice to sit in the sun in the front garden with a beer and smile. I still go to the pub but its gone from everyday to once or twice a week. Im sure, according to government health tips etc im drinking too much, but im working on getting it down even more. Keeping myself occupied with things has been a key factor so far.
We all in here know the shit ive done over the last few years , all i want to do now is recede into a vapour of normality and go un-noticed in everyday life ( with regards to drunken antics etc ) Im at a very large crossroads in my life and its one i never thought id get to to be honest. In all fairness i should be dead but im not, so im grateful for that
Its time to start again. As they say, life begins at 40 and thats at the end of this month
Carl.