Hey guys sorry to step in at such a sensitive time. I know, "Don't say sorry!", It's just so easy to feel undeserving.
I've thought a lot about Carl the last couple weeks. A lot. And every morning I wake up (drunk or hungover I'm not even really sure anymore) knowing I'm on the same path. I wake up, take a shower, and almost uncontrollably say to myself "You're going to die", until I stop myself.
I've been to rehab which helped, AA where it's uncomfortable and I only end up thinking of the right words to say instead of saying what I actually feel, and I'm lost. I listen to self help podcasts daily and could guide most with reasonable advice regurgitated by more reasonable people, that said knowing my only thought is how I can get home soon enough to drink. I don't even know why at this point. I guess it helps drowning any pain from the present and past, but I know that's all it is. It isn't dealing or growing from it, it's drowning it out. It's also habitual, just as much as eating at certain times of the day, this is like dinner for me.
I've created and deleted so many posts in this thread, knowing it was created after drinking, and like clockwork waking up tomorrow to tell myself how stupid I am for posting in this thread whilst drunk. But I avoid it while sober. I don't know why. I was sober almost 2 years, I had something difficult happen to me, and I dealt with it by drinking 12 to 15 beers a night for more than a year. My family doesn't know, only my roommate and cousin who is my best friend. I mean they might, but are maybe avoiding the topic as I become defensive and hate that it controls almost every aspect of my life and that seemingly the only solution is going back to rehab a 3rd time.
I'm 30 years old, no wife, kids, a mediocre job, and to sum this up all I want is to have those and want to progress in life, and this disease prevents everything I want from happening. I really hate how I'm living my life right now. It controls every aspect of it, and I do not want to be this person.
I'm not sure what I'm asking. It's more like a journal entry.
Thanks for letting me post.