I've been in London for the past 21 years, I left Leicester at 22 years old. I started off in North London Bounds Green area, I used to take a bus to Seven Sisters and take the Victoria line down to Victoria. I then found a flat in Mile End, and lived with some students, but because i was a working person, the whole property was liable to pay council tax, so i was booted out after 3 months. I was homeless for about a month, using various bed and breakfasts and hotels, couches of friends. Then landed in Clapham, where I lived for about 5 years. It was a strange 5 years for me, where, I was largely on my own, trying to interpret the world. Unsure if I really succeeded. Because I saw people making really deep and meaningful relationships and friendships, and I, in the end, was being used as entertainment by people. I guess I was gullible maybe, or really valued people. Because I was doing it on my own, with no history of a deep and cherished friendship. I still managed to have a good time though, work colleagues were always fun and the primary source of my friendships, however short lived they were.
Since getting married, we moved closer to her family in west london and have been here ever since. There is a large asian community of LFC fans here. But it hasn't been easy. Sometimes I wonder, if I had the support that people around me had, would things be any better. I've always thought I was surviving rather than living. I never had a set path that I wanted to go in life, I never looked at anyone and thought "I want that", so drive and ambition was something that wasn't really instilled in me. These days, I meet 22 year olds and they are so driven, they want to be CEO's at 25. Maybe my kids will be the same, who knows. But one thing i really really regret is not working hard, and changing my job often in my 20's, when I was out having a weird and wonderful time watching live music gigs here and there. I've done okay though, as a truly self made man.
I guess, what I'm saying is life probably isn't about where you are, its about the people who care about you, and you care about. I'm probably way off-topic, sorry!