i poseted a while back about my uncle who has throat and lung cancer, he was given a year to a year and a half to live.
but he didnt want to know how long he had left, he saw diff chap to the one that usally deals with his treatment,and this chaptold him by mistake.
any way my uncle is a very brave man ithink, because he does not want sympathy...... or for people to feel sorry for him , which is hard at times for me.
this is because he has two grown up daughters who dont want anything to do with him even now, to cut a long story short he got a divorce from his wife
many years a go and after a long court case won custody of both his girls.
and he gave everything up to raise them work etc and a massive legal bill that has took him 20 years to pay off, put them through university etc
both girls reach a certain age and ask my uncle if they can have contact with there mum who they have not seen for about 12 years.
as my uncle has said he would never stop them he said ok, as a result of everything that went on my uncle has not seen his girls for about 10 years
as there mother turned them against him.
he then wrote to his girls to tell them of his cancer, and he basicly got a reply saying if u have anything you want to say sorry for you best do it now
so i try to spend as much time with him as i can with my two boys and GF when he is up to seeing us that is.
WHAT A BRAVE BRAVE MAN MY UNCLE IS\ AS IS EVRYONE ON HERE FIGHTING THE BATTLE AND THOSE OF US WHO DEAL WITH IT BEST WE CAN HUGS TO TO YOU ALLXX