Thoughts on dating someone who already has a child when you don't? Is it a no-no, a dealbreaker or is it overblown and it works?
Who cares? It's different for everyone. Up to you mate. And if this someone is on the market so to speak, they find it OK
Don't put a problem where none exists.
I don't want kids, but I'd look after a kid already here. My partner doesn't want them. If I was single, I'd possibly consider it - I have dated women with kids before - but really, it is secondary to the love; and the couple of women I've dated who had kids, the kids were not front and centre! I didn't even meet the kid of one of 'em
As long as it's not "I am only seeking a father replacement" level up-front-and-personal I can't imagine it being a dealbreaker. Kids should not be exposed to loads of strangers in a pseudoparental role, ideally
The girl is boss and we get on great, the kid is only 5 so she is going through a bit of a tough time and can be moody.
The dad is involved but isn't a c*nt by all accounts.
I've never had any interest in kids but I do really like the girl I'm seeing so its a tough one.
So, what's tough about it?
Unless you
hate kids, just see her for a bit - see what happens. You're dating
her