^
Further to what you said there, Gazalfc...
My qualifications are in counselling/therapy. In that field we believe the human being has an inate drive to self-actualise; to be the best we can be. Thing is, if our needs are not met and nurtured, if our environment is not conducive, then we can still actualise, but not always in ways deemed positive by society.
Basically, if your environment is a dog-eat-dog world, a violent world and a negative world, you can still be the best you can be in that world but it often won't be pretty or positive. You can, in effect, become very good at being very bad.
Even with no education, no qualifications and growing up in a broken home on a sink estate, a person can actualise by dragging themselves out of it and building a positive future for themselves. Or they could actualise by becoming the baddest, meanest criminal on the estate and feel good about themselves in that way instead. We all want to be the best we can be.
What we need is a society that looks at the value of things rather than the cost of things. A more nurturing society that allows people to self-actualise in a way that's both positive for them personally and society as a whole.