Make sure you burn the estate agency down first to avoid paying their fees. Subhuman scum they are.
I'm currently living with the in laws (well, practically in-laws). Me and my gf will be able to save up a deposit for a cheap shithole in no time at all, which would then mean we would start building equity straight away. But really I want to keep saving and move into a great house as my first purchase.
Which means living here for years
What to do what to do.
I've just bought my second house (sold the first like, I'm not a tycoon!) and it's still not the mythical 'great house' that I want. I've found both times of buying that the 'great house' was about 40k out of reach, and it will possibly remain so. I'd say get on the ladder as soon as possible so you can start building equity, although if you can save the same amount (or more) by living at the (almost) inlaws then why not - balance living with inlaws against the state of the house you can afford at the moment I guess.
I told myself with this new house that taking it was better than having to move from our old house into rented accomodation, the moving fees we'd save by waiting for a (possibly fictional) 'dream house' and renting negate each other - and it would have meant moving twice in a year or so which with a 2 year old is not ideal.
Hopefully the new house can have some work done to get it closer to the house we actually want - I am dying to get rid of the laminate flooring and crap new fireplaces and put in parquet flooring and some proper period (Victorian) fireplaces, restore the house to it's former glory. Then there's the loft conversion and kitchen extension...and even at the end of that we'd still have a yard and not a garden. I think during the hunt we concluded that the 'perfect house' for us didn't quite exist - we love Victorian terraces but so few have gardens, and the alternative was a 'too small inside' 3 bed semi, probably further from the area we wanted, so in the end we just took the plunge. Probably won't be moving to late Autumn at best now.