My parents have a crazy neighbour. He’s a Policeman who had multiple camera on them making up crazy claims he was the victim being bullied. I was ill for a while so my parents didn’t tell me but I had to get involved shortly afterwards so it stopped.
I got a new front partition fence installed along with a Ring doorbell. It’s been quiet ever since and no charges were made against my parents (not they ever had a case) and he would have been spoken too about his behaviour.
However, they need to replace their gutters so have approached him for access to a downpipe. This was done via a dedicated email that was set up for both parties on advice of the Police. He has subsequently hand delivered a weird letter saying he won’t grant that and it would be trespassing if we did so. That’s highly predictable but why does he believe that he can trespass to deliver a letter ? The contents make him sound like an absolute nut job too.
I know it’s not a Police matter and he’s pushing those lines again but I don’t want him doing this so how can I approach it? I obviously don’t want things to start up again.
I'm guessing the work can't be carried out without access to this pipe?
As a next step, I would send him another email via the agreed addresses (to show your own compliance with any police recommendations) and ask him to please reply via the email addresses provided rather than posting handwritten notes. Reiterate your request and the reasonableness of it. indicate that you're willing to make an application to the court to gain access but that you'd like to avoid this to avoid costs to all parties. I think it's important that you stick to the parameters that have been agreed even if he isn't.
If he does the same again or doesn't reply, then I'd just make the court application. No doubt he will oppose the order but this is where he'll start to look like a loon and where the court will see him for what he is. If his behaviour is clearly vexatious (which in this instance it is), then the court will have absolutely none of his bullshit
Sounds like a nightmare mate and I'm sorry this is on you/your parents but you do have legal routes which exist precisely to deal with pricks like him. Don't waste too much time dealing with him directly, you know it's not going to get you anywhere.