Haven't any of you tried talking to your other half? Discussed why your sex life might have gone down hill? And I don't mean approach it aggressively or with intent to insult your missus, just tried to have a conversation about it.
Some of the stuff in here...
Some of you seem to treat your women like animals and are only interested in what you get out of sex.
"My biggest fear with putting all the effort in; touching gently, massaging her ego and other bollocks, is that if it doesn't come off you've wasted a lot of time & energy. My preferred method is the 'Big Spoon, Little Spoon' tactic, wait 'til she turns around in bed then go for the big spoon cuddle; surprise attack her by whipping your knob between her arse cheeks and hope for the best.
99% of the time it fails, but at least that's only a few seconds of energy wasted trying for a ride, rather than swanking around the house like Rico Suave dropping kisses on her neck, whilst she's loading the washing machine with your dirty togs and reeking of Persil, and lying to her that she looks great in a head-to-toe bathrobe that would make a Burka look like a g-string."
'Wasted time and energy'...? So making your girl feel special and loved is a waste of 'time and energy'...? It's as if you're punishing her because you're not getting what you wanted.
Couples who have sex often generally do because they are still very much in love with each other, fancy each other and want to make the other person feel good.
I agree with alot of what Billy says, but can't help but leave this thread thinking how sneaky and manipulative men can be.
