Author Topic: Cancer  (Read 247665 times)

Offline jillcwhomever

  • Finding Brian hard to swallow. Definitely not Paula Nancy MIllstone Jennings of 37 Wasp Villas, Greenbridge, Essex, GB10 1LL. Or maybe. Who knows.....Finds it hard to choose between Jürgen's wurst and Fat Sam's sausage.
  • Lead Matchday Commentator
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 77,770
  • "I'm surprised they didn't charge me rent"
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2640 on: October 21, 2021, 10:02:35 pm »
https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/football/58955333 - Another young player with cancer. Hopefully, he has caught it early and be all ok.

2 weeks since my chemo tomorrow and feeling better each day - it is just the tiredness that is worse thing.

Returned to work today and doing reduced hours for this week.

That is great to hear Nick, keep going I am sure the tiredness will eventually improve. We had a work colleague who had breast cancer but she is back with us now, it's like she's never been away. I hope everything works out for you.
"He's trying to get right away from football. I believe he went to Everton"

Offline Nick110581

  • Up the tricky reds
  • RAWK Supporter
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 39,267
  • Hearts Jurgen
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2641 on: October 22, 2021, 09:42:13 am »
That is great to hear Nick, keep going I am sure the tiredness will eventually improve. We had a work colleague who had breast cancer but she is back with us now, it's like she's never been away. I hope everything works out for you.

Thanks Jill - it is all good so far.

Probably done too much this week but sleeping well and only got to work another 5/6 weeks as got loads of holiday to use so that allows me to start the new year a fresh!
No, jazz. You fear jazz. You fear the lack of rules, the lack of boundaries. Oh look, it's a fence. But, no, it's soft.

Offline Andy @ Allerton!

  • Missing an asterisk - no, wait sorry, that's his rusty starfish..... RAWK Apple fanboy. Hedley Lamarr's bestest mate. Has done nothing incredible ever.
  • RAWK Supporter
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 73,672
  • Asterisks baby!
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2642 on: October 23, 2021, 09:07:25 am »
This thing has claimed pretty much all my family and the only person older than me still alive (my dad) is riddled with it and is unlikely to last to the new year.

I suppose the only 'upside' is that it's kind of run out of people to kill except my sister and neices and missus.
Quote from: tubby on Today at 12:45:53 pm

They both went in high, that's factually correct, both tried to play the ball at height.  Doku with his foot, Mac Allister with his chest.

Offline Wabaloolah

  • Rocks to the East, Rocks to the West. Definitely Unscotch.
  • Matchday Commentator
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 24,678
  • Allez Allez Allez
    • My Twitter Account
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2643 on: October 26, 2021, 11:18:40 am »
My papa got diagnosed with terminal prostrate cancer a 6 months ago. Spread to his bones unfortunately. Told he has 2 years to live. Had his first treatment of radiotherapy a few months back.

Was at hospital yesterday to see his specialist and got as good news as he could. The cancer hasn’t advanced anymore since last time and he won’t need anymore radiotherapy this time. Will get reassessed again in a couple months.

Horrible disease. Thoughts to everyone dealing with it.
Exactly the same as my father in law, got diagnosed in January this year, been told it's incurable and he has between 1 to 3 years.  When I took him for his CoVid jab in January it shocked me as I haven't seen much of him due to the CoVid restrictions, briefly saw him on Christmas Day and he looked ill but in two weeks he had deteriorated and I didn't think he would last until his birthday in March.

He is on a course of chemo tablets and they have helped, reduced his markers from 10,000 to around 25, the oncologist had never seen levels that high before.

It's pitiful to see him though, he's 77 but always looked 10 years younger, a tall man, ex rugby forward and he has lost so much weight and now walks with a stoop.

It is being managed and it's amazing to see him doing so well but it's sad that it's only a matter of time which the wife is struggling with
However if something serious happens to them I will eat my own cock.


If anyone is going to put a few fingers deep into my arse it's going to be me.

Offline pazcom

  • Kopite
  • *****
  • Posts: 985
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2644 on: October 26, 2021, 12:33:58 pm »
Exactly the same as my father in law, got diagnosed in January this year, been told it's incurable and he has between 1 to 3 years.  When I took him for his CoVid jab in January it shocked me as I haven't seen much of him due to the CoVid restrictions, briefly saw him on Christmas Day and he looked ill but in two weeks he had deteriorated and I didn't think he would last until his birthday in March.

He is on a course of chemo tablets and they have helped, reduced his markers from 10,000 to around 25, the oncologist had never seen levels that high before.

It's pitiful to see him though, he's 77 but always looked 10 years younger, a tall man, ex rugby forward and he has lost so much weight and now walks with a stoop.

It is being managed and it's amazing to see him doing so well but it's sad that it's only a matter of time which the wife is struggling with

my dad passed away 2 January 2020 from this awful disease. All I can say is for any man over 40 demand the PSA blood test every year, the quicker its identified the better chances of recovery and don't be shy from the physical exam - its about 5 seconds of a finger up the arse, its nothing compared to what women have to go through.
Keira 29/04/1999
 --- Violet 09/09/2020
 --- Myles 13/10/2021
Sophie 26/04/2006

My little Reds

Offline Wabaloolah

  • Rocks to the East, Rocks to the West. Definitely Unscotch.
  • Matchday Commentator
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 24,678
  • Allez Allez Allez
    • My Twitter Account
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2645 on: October 26, 2021, 12:53:44 pm »
my dad passed away 2 January 2020 from this awful disease. All I can say is for any man over 40 demand the PSA blood test every year, the quicker its identified the better chances of recovery and don't be shy from the physical exam - its about 5 seconds of a finger up the arse, its nothing compared to what women have to go through.
good advice that, a mate of mine who is 75 now, asked his doctor for one about 10 years or so ago, the doctor said that he didn't need one, my mate insisted and the results came back that he had early stage prostate cancer, caught it, treated it and he is now OK.
However if something serious happens to them I will eat my own cock.


If anyone is going to put a few fingers deep into my arse it's going to be me.

Offline Nitramdorf

  • No longer as forward as he used to be, so has dropped back into midfield. Didn't you hear?
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 4,077
  • We all Live in a Red and White Kop
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2646 on: October 26, 2021, 04:21:18 pm »
Just thought I'd add for any lads playing football still. I used to play 6 a side and 3 of the regular 6 got testicular cancer and 2 of those swear it was from a football hitting them in the bollocks. They are all alright now but they all got things checked as something didnt feel right. Checking yourself and getting things checked is a small price to pay. You never know.

I live for the day when this fucker gets beaten. I lost my dad back in the 70s when I was a little boy and it still affects me a bit. Im now older than he was when he went at 52.

Best wishes to you all  :thumbup

Offline Andy @ Allerton!

  • Missing an asterisk - no, wait sorry, that's his rusty starfish..... RAWK Apple fanboy. Hedley Lamarr's bestest mate. Has done nothing incredible ever.
  • RAWK Supporter
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 73,672
  • Asterisks baby!
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2647 on: November 4, 2021, 02:30:44 am »
And there he was... gone.

RIP dad.
Quote from: tubby on Today at 12:45:53 pm

They both went in high, that's factually correct, both tried to play the ball at height.  Doku with his foot, Mac Allister with his chest.

Offline jillcwhomever

  • Finding Brian hard to swallow. Definitely not Paula Nancy MIllstone Jennings of 37 Wasp Villas, Greenbridge, Essex, GB10 1LL. Or maybe. Who knows.....Finds it hard to choose between Jürgen's wurst and Fat Sam's sausage.
  • Lead Matchday Commentator
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 77,770
  • "I'm surprised they didn't charge me rent"
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2648 on: November 4, 2021, 06:34:16 am »
And there he was... gone.

RIP dad.

Sorry to hear that Andy.  :(
"He's trying to get right away from football. I believe he went to Everton"

Offline mobydick

  • Comes in any flavour
  • RAWK Supporter
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 9,117
  • Thatcherite refugee
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2649 on: November 4, 2021, 07:01:30 am »
And there he was... gone.

RIP dad.

My heartfelt condolences Andy.

Offline Rhi

  • Rhisuscitated
  • RAWK Staff
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 1,952
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2650 on: November 4, 2021, 09:01:04 am »
And there he was... gone.

RIP dad.

So sorry to hear this mate. Thinking of you. x
“Above all, I would like to be remembered as a man who was selfless, who strove and worried so that others could share the glory, and who built up a family of people who could hold their heads up high and say 'We're Liverpool'.” - Bill Shankly

Offline El Lobo

  • Chief Suck Up. Feel his breath on your face. Toxic, pathetic, arse-faced, weaselling slimeball. RAWK Maths Genius 2022.
  • RAWK Supporter
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 54,990
  • Pretty, pretty, pretty pretty good
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2651 on: November 4, 2021, 09:06:51 am »
Sorry to hear that mate :(

Thoughts with you and the family.
If he's being asked to head the ball too frequently - which isn't exactly his specialty - it could affect his ear and cause an infection. Especially if the ball hits him on the ear directly.

Offline Ray K

  • Loves a shiny helmet. The new IndyKalia.
  • RAWK Supporter
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 35,829
  • Truthiness
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2652 on: November 4, 2021, 10:32:14 am »
And there he was... gone.

RIP dad.
Deepest sympathy to you and your family Andy. May he Rest In Peace
"We have to change from doubters to believers"

Twitter: @rjkelly75

Offline Corkboy

  • Sworn enemy of Bottlegirl. The Boston Toilet Mangler. Grauniad of the Cidatel. Into kinky S&M with the Lash.
  • RAWK Scribe
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 32,382
  • Is it getting better?
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2653 on: November 4, 2021, 10:33:21 am »
And there he was... gone.

RIP dad.

Condolences to you and your family.

Offline The G in Gerrard

  • RAWK Supporter
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 45,284
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2654 on: November 4, 2021, 10:43:57 am »
Sorry to hear that. RIP.

Offline John C

  • RAWK Staff
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 42,262
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2655 on: November 4, 2021, 11:48:40 am »
All of our thoughts are with you Andy mate.
Take care buddy.

Offline Chakan

  • Chaka Chaka.....is in love with Aristotle but only for votes. The proud owner of some very private piles and an inflatable harem! Winner of RAWK's Carabao Cup captian contest.
  • RAWK Supporter
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 91,079
  • Internet Terrorist lvl VI
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2656 on: November 4, 2021, 11:56:27 am »

Sorry to hear Andy, and condolences to you and your family during this difficult time. Having gone through something similar with my mom I know how painful it can be losing a parent to cancer. My deepest sympathies mate.

YNWA

Offline pazcom

  • Kopite
  • *****
  • Posts: 985
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2657 on: November 4, 2021, 12:07:58 pm »
And there he was... gone.

RIP dad.

Thoughts are with you. It would have been my dads 75 birthday last week, don't mind telling everybody that I got upset.

Hate this fucking disease.
Keira 29/04/1999
 --- Violet 09/09/2020
 --- Myles 13/10/2021
Sophie 26/04/2006

My little Reds

Offline Andy @ Allerton!

  • Missing an asterisk - no, wait sorry, that's his rusty starfish..... RAWK Apple fanboy. Hedley Lamarr's bestest mate. Has done nothing incredible ever.
  • RAWK Supporter
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 73,672
  • Asterisks baby!
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2658 on: November 4, 2021, 12:49:42 pm »
Thanks everyone. Very much appreciated :)
Quote from: tubby on Today at 12:45:53 pm

They both went in high, that's factually correct, both tried to play the ball at height.  Doku with his foot, Mac Allister with his chest.

Offline reddebs

  • areddwarfis4lifenotjust4xmas
  • RAWK Supporter
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 13,108
  • We all Live in a Red and White Kop
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2659 on: March 19, 2022, 09:31:03 pm »
This bastard disease has raised its ugly head again though thankfully not for me personally.

A client who is also a friend of my daughter's is being fast tracked through breast cancer screening after finding a lump.

One of her colleagues has been diagnosed with a tumour on her bladder and another colleagues husband has been diagnosed with an inoperable brain tumour.

All of them are in their early to mid 30s 😔


Offline jillcwhomever

  • Finding Brian hard to swallow. Definitely not Paula Nancy MIllstone Jennings of 37 Wasp Villas, Greenbridge, Essex, GB10 1LL. Or maybe. Who knows.....Finds it hard to choose between Jürgen's wurst and Fat Sam's sausage.
  • Lead Matchday Commentator
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 77,770
  • "I'm surprised they didn't charge me rent"
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2660 on: March 20, 2022, 09:58:17 am »
This bastard disease has raised its ugly head again though thankfully not for me personally.

A client who is also a friend of my daughter's is being fast tracked through breast cancer screening after finding a lump.

One of her colleagues has been diagnosed with a tumour on her bladder and another colleagues husband has been diagnosed with an inoperable brain tumour.

All of them are in their early to mid 30s 😔

It's amazing how many relatively young women seem to be getting this. One of my work colleagues had it about two years ago. She's fully recovered now thankfully but it was huge shock to everyone. Let's hope its the same result for these three as well. The treatment is obviously greatly improved now.
"He's trying to get right away from football. I believe he went to Everton"

Offline reddebs

  • areddwarfis4lifenotjust4xmas
  • RAWK Supporter
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 13,108
  • We all Live in a Red and White Kop
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2661 on: March 20, 2022, 10:35:16 am »
It's amazing how many relatively young women seem to be getting this. One of my work colleagues had it about two years ago. She's fully recovered now thankfully but it was huge shock to everyone. Let's hope its the same result for these three as well. The treatment is obviously greatly improved now.

It's awful isn't it Jill when it's hitting so many younger people. 

It makes you wonder if it's a lifestyle or environmental thing 🤷

Offline mobydick

  • Comes in any flavour
  • RAWK Supporter
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 9,117
  • Thatcherite refugee
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2662 on: April 6, 2022, 08:35:05 am »
I’ve thought long and hard, over a period of time, whether to post this. I was unsure because this is the first time I have had a medical problem that could do me some lasting, if not fatal harm and I was hesitant to

put it “out there” against holding it all in and dealing with the problem privately.

As everything seems to be going well though I decided to post this and maybe if someone else is helped by my information, that would be great.

Anyway I was diagnosed with Prostate cancer on the 23.09.21. When the Urologist gave me the diagnosis I was a bit unsure what it all meant, I wasn’t in denial, I don’t think but I just didn’t feel ill or have any

mitigating pain or feelings of being sick, so how could this be?

It all came about when I went in to my GP for a biannual checkup, (25.05.21) I have been doing this since I was 45. I’d never heard of a PSA test before (I don’t know why), so I was a bit in the dark when the

Doctor’s assistant asked me “if we should do a PSA test too? It’s a prostate test” she said “It’s not paid for by your insurance but it’s worth doing”. “What’s it cost? I asked. €17.00 was the reply. “okay, do it I said,

and left it at that. I had been doing all the right things I thought, Blood work, ECG stress test, skin check, hearing test, Colon cancer test and so on. This also included a digital rectal examination, which was

keeping me informed about my Prostate size and also any abnormalities that can lead to cancer.

When the tests came back, with a PSA result of 7,6 I was still in the land of the unknowing. The Doc asked me if I did a lot of cycling? “Not at the moment” I said. This question stuck in my head for some reason,

it’s still there now. This, along with a few other activities, can apparently affect your PSA number. Mine wasn’t good anyway so the next stage was fixing up a date with the Urologist, which was pretty painless.

Within a couple of weeks I had an audience. His first job was to berate me as to why I hadn’t come earlier and his second was to let me know what he thought of General Practitioners, especially when they were

dealing with anything in the urinary system.  He did all the usual tests, Blood, PSA, Ultrasound, prostrate, Kidneys, Liver and Colon and told me to phone up a week later for the results. After this procedure was

repeated twice, with no discernible improvements, (PSA 7,3 and 8,4) he recommended a Biopsy, which was done within the next two weeks. This procedure, personally wasn’t as bad as I thought it might be and

the Urologist took enough precautions to safeguard me from Infections and the like beforehand.

The result of the biopsy was thought provoking to say the least. It came back with 10 of the 12 probes showing cancerous growth which, with the aggressiveness of some of the Probes, gave me a Gleason score of

3+4=7a, which is a medium grade cancer score. 

Next came the discussion about which treatment suited me, it’s effectiveness, drawbacks and long term after, and or side effects. My Urologist was a “Cutter”. He comes from the surgical side of Medicine. “Get rid”

he said, with recommendations for the best Prostate Clinic he knew of. “We’ll take the Prostate out, together with a few Lymph Nodes, for testing purposes and you should be fine” 

I’m all for going for the easy route and to be honest his recommendation sounded like the best way to go, but…….. The internet is a wonderful source of information, misinformation, opinions, lies and well, just

bullshit, so I decided to inform myself. It takes a lot of sifting to get through to the right information but sift I did. It can be worrying and stressful reading reports and watching videos and gathering information

but it had to be done. Information give you the power to decide. I won’t bore you with the details but after researching all the different methods available to me, including some that weren’t because a lot of

research included USA medicine but they were still included on my list, I decided that surgery wasn’t for me. I visited a few clinics and visited other Urologists for their opinions. I had more tests to see what would

be my best cause of action but above all to find out what suited me.

I decide, after all the second opinions, to go for External Radiation Treatment coupled with HDR Afterloading. This first entailed the implantation of three gold marker seeds into the Prostate, enabling  precise

delivery of the radiation beam. Then external and internal radiation. My first choice would have been Brachytherapy. Brachytherapy is a form of radiation therapy where a sealed radiation source is placed

permanently inside or next to the area requiring treatment. Because my Gleason score was +7 this treatment was unavailable to me, so I went for the next best thing. The external radiation treatment (ERT)

consisted of 31 days continuous radiation therapy and then, either during or after ERT,  4 appointments for HDR treatment. This involves the short time implantation of 10/12 needles into the prostate with high

radiation seeds, which are then removed after about 15 minutes. Doing it this way gives the Urologist the choice of raising the radiation dose to suit each patient. All this is done under aesthetic, aided by a

computer programme and a “Placement Matrix” to enable precise delivery of the radiation. The side affects are minimal but some are still there. There is no invasion surgery, no shortening and reconnecting of the

Prostatic Urethra, less pain, minimal prospect of incontinence and so on and so forth.

So I had the gold seeds implanted on the15th of December and started my ERT on the 20th which was completed on February the 2nd. My HDR started on February the 7th and was completed by the 7th of March.

At the moment I am getting back to normal as much as I can, I’ve started running and golfing again and I am much relieved that I don’t need to pee 4 times a night and 10/15 times during the day. I was always

very wary of going anywhere during the treatment as I didn’t want to be caught short but things are improving. I will be having follow up tests, first after three months and then regularly after that, so I will know

the effectiveness of the treatment after my first PSA test in May. So at the moment, It’s wait and see. 

Information gathering is a minefield. Doctors and Clinics have vested interests to sell you their product. It’s difficult get relative information, unbiased opinions and generally make the right decisions. It is

essential, however stressful it is to get hold of as much information as possible. Only then can you make an informed decision. At the moment I am fighting my medical insurance provider about some of the


payments, which adds extra stress. I will probably have to take them to court but I’m not letting go. Above all I am glad my family was there to support me.

If you are in the age bracket of 40 to 50 get your PSA tested. It’s not definitive but it’s an indicator that something might be amiss. It is well worth it because the earlier something is detected, the easier it is to

fight it.

Sorry this is so long, if you got this far. Thanks.

Offline Crosby Nick

  • He was super funny. Used to do these super hilarious puns
  • RAWK Scribe
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 111,913
  • Poultry in Motion
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2663 on: April 6, 2022, 08:48:25 am »
Thanks for posting Moby. Sounds like you had some very good and thorough treatment. Best of luck with your follow up tests.

Offline John C

  • RAWK Staff
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 42,262
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2664 on: April 7, 2022, 08:12:34 pm »
Sorry to read that moby, I feel for you. My mate in work is going through it. He's in a right mess.
Stay strong buddy.



« Last Edit: April 11, 2022, 06:27:06 am by John C »

Offline mobydick

  • Comes in any flavour
  • RAWK Supporter
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 9,117
  • Thatcherite refugee
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2665 on: April 8, 2022, 07:25:35 pm »
Thanks, Nick and John. I feel positive that I have taken the right treatment and I am hopeful about future good PSA results. Hope your mate can find some positives John. It can get a bit dark sometimes, talking helps though, if you can find a sympathetic ear. 

Offline nozza

  • RAWK Supporter
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 1,255
  • We all Live in a Red and White Kop
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2666 on: April 8, 2022, 10:10:55 pm »
Thanks, Nick and John. I feel positive that I have taken the right treatment and I am hopeful about future good PSA results. Hope your mate can find some positives John. It can get a bit dark sometimes, talking helps though, if you can find a sympathetic ear. 

Been going through this also mate. I went with Proton Therapy. I have 2 more treatments left out of 30. Tried to stay as positive as possible and looking forward to hopefully putting this behimd me. It does help to talk and share experiences...p.m. anytime if you get down. It's been a pretty daunting year or so since getting diagnosed but actually getting treatment and trying to move past it has helped sort my head out.

Offline [new username under construction]

  • Poster formerly know as shadowbane. Never lost his head whilst others panicked. Fucking kopite!
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 12,427
  • Insert something awesome here!
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2667 on: May 19, 2022, 08:34:12 am »

Offline jambutty

  • The Gok Wan of RAWK. Tripespotting Advocate. Oakley style guru. Hardman St. arl arse, "Ridiculously cool" -Atko- Impending U.S. Civil War Ostrich. Too old to suffer wankers and WUMs on here.
  • RAWK Supporter
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 13,864
  • June 20, 2009. Still no justice for Neda
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2668 on: May 27, 2022, 05:10:36 pm »
Had a recurred cyst on my back removed 2 weeks ago.

Results came back positive so they're going back in to clean it out a bit more.

I'm gonna kick Toby's arse a 3rd time.  8) ;)
Kill the humourless

Offline mobydick

  • Comes in any flavour
  • RAWK Supporter
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 9,117
  • Thatcherite refugee
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2669 on: June 13, 2022, 04:53:10 pm »
So, good news for me today. I had my PSA test results back today and my first quarterly test has come back at 0,7, which, down from 8,7 just before treatment, is a weight off my shoulders. I was a bit worried when I phoned up because if the results are not too good they ask you to come in, I was hanging on the line for about 5 minutes when the Urologist came on and gave the good news. Looks like my radiation treatment has gone well, I  am well pleased.

Chin up anyone else going through treatment, there is a lot of hope to go round.

Offline John C

  • RAWK Staff
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 42,262
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2670 on: June 13, 2022, 08:39:45 pm »
So, good news for me today. I had my PSA test results back today and my first quarterly test has come back at 0,7, which, down from 8,7 just before treatment, is a weight off my shoulders. I was a bit worried when I phoned up because if the results are not too good they ask you to come in, I was hanging on the line for about 5 minutes when the Urologist came on and gave the good news. Looks like my radiation treatment has gone well, I  am well pleased.

Chin up anyone else going through treatment, there is a lot of hope to go round.
Glad to hear that mate, you must have had a terrible time.

Offline mobydick

  • Comes in any flavour
  • RAWK Supporter
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 9,117
  • Thatcherite refugee
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2671 on: June 13, 2022, 08:52:08 pm »
Glad to hear that mate, you must have had a terrible time.
Thanks John, there were some dark thoughts at times but with family support things are maybe not so bad as you think. It can be difficult at times though.
Popped a bottle of red wine I’d been saving. :hally

Offline John C

  • RAWK Staff
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 42,262
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2672 on: June 28, 2022, 09:41:19 pm »

Deborah James has died, age 40. Tragic for her and her family.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-61451495

Offline Andy @ Allerton!

  • Missing an asterisk - no, wait sorry, that's his rusty starfish..... RAWK Apple fanboy. Hedley Lamarr's bestest mate. Has done nothing incredible ever.
  • RAWK Supporter
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 73,672
  • Asterisks baby!
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2673 on: June 28, 2022, 10:40:57 pm »
So, good news for me today. I had my PSA test results back today and my first quarterly test has come back at 0,7, which, down from 8,7 just before treatment, is a weight off my shoulders. I was a bit worried when I phoned up because if the results are not too good they ask you to come in, I was hanging on the line for about 5 minutes when the Urologist came on and gave the good news. Looks like my radiation treatment has gone well, I  am well pleased.

Chin up anyone else going through treatment, there is a lot of hope to go round.

Good news - only just read this. Been avoiding this thread.

Hope all is good
Quote from: tubby on Today at 12:45:53 pm

They both went in high, that's factually correct, both tried to play the ball at height.  Doku with his foot, Mac Allister with his chest.

Offline Red_Mist

  • RAWK Supporter
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 8,669
  • CORGI registered friend (but not a gas engineer)
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2674 on: July 3, 2022, 12:57:26 am »
It finally took my blue mate. I helped carry him in to the crem and wore an Everton pin badge so he could look down and laugh at my discomfort. RIP mate.

Offline Andy @ Allerton!

  • Missing an asterisk - no, wait sorry, that's his rusty starfish..... RAWK Apple fanboy. Hedley Lamarr's bestest mate. Has done nothing incredible ever.
  • RAWK Supporter
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 73,672
  • Asterisks baby!
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2675 on: July 3, 2022, 09:55:48 am »
Sorry to hear that

Such a terrible thing :(
Quote from: tubby on Today at 12:45:53 pm

They both went in high, that's factually correct, both tried to play the ball at height.  Doku with his foot, Mac Allister with his chest.

Offline mobydick

  • Comes in any flavour
  • RAWK Supporter
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 9,117
  • Thatcherite refugee
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2676 on: July 3, 2022, 12:18:23 pm »
Good news - only just read this. Been avoiding this thread.

Hope all is good

All good Andy thanks.

Deborah James has died, age 40. Tragic for her and her family.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-61451495


This indiscriminate decease causes untold pain, I feel for the families left behind when someone so young is taken.

It finally took my blue mate. I helped carry him in to the crem and wore an Everton pin badge so he could look down and laugh at my discomfort. RIP mate.

RIP. Good on you mate.

Offline disgraced cake

  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 10,750
  • Seis Veces
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2677 on: July 3, 2022, 12:38:44 pm »
Sorry to hear that Red Mist
Proud follower of the city's junior, and far more successful footballing side

Rome 1977
London 1978
Paris 1981
Rome 1984
Istanbul 2005
Madrid 2019

19 League Titles, 6 European Cups, 3 UEFA Cups, 8 FA Cups, 10 League Cups, 4 European Super Cups, World Champions 2019. We live the dream.

Offline Red_Mist

  • RAWK Supporter
  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 8,669
  • CORGI registered friend (but not a gas engineer)
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2678 on: July 3, 2022, 02:27:00 pm »
Thanks all, that’s kind of you. He was a great fella, funny as anything. I’ll miss our regular catch ups over some food and a beer. A proud blue who was never bitter, at least not when he was with me. We could just chat about the footy for hours. I’m glad he got to see them stay up.

P.S. I’m glad your treatment is having a good effect moby 👍
« Last Edit: July 3, 2022, 02:31:10 pm by Red_Mist »

Offline cormorant

  • Legacy Fan
  • ******
  • Posts: 1,101
  • We had Shankly and the Kop at Liverpool...
Re: Cancer
« Reply #2679 on: July 29, 2022, 06:57:09 am »
My Dad pretty much confirmed with bowel cancer the other day. He's 74, had his endoscopies and they found a lump. Doctor started talking about surgery but waiting for the results from the biopsies to come back. Got his CT scan on Monday of next week. No great surprise that he's got it as he had a heart attack last May. Sounds very much like this was the cause and has gone undetected until now, especially with the delay in attending follow up clinics with the covid related backlogs. Also a distinct possibility that he may not be able to have surgery because of his heart issues.

He lives on his own about 200 miles away from myself and has no family or any real friends in his immediate area. I also live alone, whilst my brother, his partner and two kids are a similar distance away from him. The practicalities around this and his situation had me pretty scared at first (to say the very least). My mum passed away from MND more than a decade ago and I took the experience from that into now straightaway. Told my manager and she has no problem with me working from home at his address if necessary and not being on standby to go into the office. Also had a very useful chat yesterday with a more senior member of staff who has recently lost both her mum and nan to cancer. Felt guilty sending her a message asking what advice was available for family members from the likes of Macmillan as it happened so recently but reached out anyway. She's a very approachable person and stayed beyond the end of her shift to talk and also gave me her personal number so I can contact her at any time.

I suppose the reason I'm posting this is just to say that it can be easy to forget about the effect this kind of thing can have on everyone else involved and not to be afraid to ask for help.
The fans here are the greatest in the land. They know the game and they know what they want to see. The people on the Kop make you feel great - yet humble. I'm just one of the people...