Topic: Relationship troubles

[aurelian]

You want advice on what advice to ask for?

[Sir Harvest Fields]

Shag her best friend. If she gets annoyed over that then you'll know she has the hots for you

Didnt work for Paul mate

[aurelian]

Want my honest opinion, you're both 17, far far too young for either of you to be committing to any relationship beyond having fun together

 

seventeen year olds can't have any kind of committed relationship? 

at what age can they have committed relationships, in your opinion?

[Billy The Kid]

Didnt work for Paul mate

Nothing really works for Paul though, does it?

[JimmyGrunt]

Hold on, am i reading this right?

Mr Heffner who knows english birds inside out turns out to be 17 and is asking how he asks a bird to mop him off? Fucking hell ive heard it all.

[Sir Harvest Fields]

I bet he wanks in front of a mirror to be honest.

[Renato]

Leo's a bit of a strange chap.

[JimmyGrunt]

I bet he wanks in front of a mirror to be honest.

Posing like Spiderman.

[Brian Blessed]

Jerry, Hello!

Leo, Hello!

[RedJam70]

seventeen year olds can't have any kind of committed relationship? 

at what age can they have committed relationships, in your opinion?

Older than 17 obviously.  In my experience and bearing in mind I have a 17 y/o son myself (god I feel old) 17 y/o's are usually(but not always) unready for a committed relationship of the "lets get married/live together, be together forever, have kids" kind. Some relationships last at 17, most don't so I wouldn't personally see more into it than having fun and then if it develops into more a few years down the line good. On the other hand I've known of quite a few marriages that have broken up in their late 30s after getting together at 16/17 with the parties feeling they've missed out on having fun in their teens. I don't mean to sound snippy just I don't think most relationships of that age are going to turn into long term committed relationships so wouldn't go into one expecting it to. But that's probably down to my old old age. (and jealousy that I'm not that age any more.  )

[LS7Leo]

Older than 17 obviously.  In my experience and bearing in mind I have a 17 y/o son myself (god I feel old) 17 y/o's are usually(but not always) unready for a committed relationship of the "lets get married/live together, be together forever, have kids" kind. Some relationships last at 17, most don't so I wouldn't personally see more into it than having fun and then if it develops into more a few years down the line good. On the other hand I've known of quite a few marriages that have broken up in their late 30s after getting together at 16/17 with the parties feeling they've missed out on having fun in their teens. I don't mean to sound snippy just I don't think most relationships of that age are going to turn into long term committed relationships so wouldn't go into one expecting it to. But that's probably down to my old old age. (and jealousy that I'm not that age any more.  )

So anyone 17 or under should not be in a relationship?

[Welshred]

So anyone 17 or under should not be in a relationship?

At 17 you should be trying to disappoint as many girls as possible!

[firing squad]

I hate you people. is there not any females on here?

if she likes being with you regardles of sex she likes you.  Of course, you have to fuck her first for that to find out tho.

[aurelian]

So anyone 17 or under should not be in a relationship?

no, just you.

[LS7Leo]

no, just you.

Charming

[aurelian]

Older than 17 obviously.  In my experience and bearing in mind I have a 17 y/o son myself (god I feel old) 17 y/o's are usually(but not always) unready for a committed relationship of the "lets get married/live together, be together forever, have kids" kind. Some relationships last at 17, most don't so I wouldn't personally see more into it than having fun and then if it develops into more a few years down the line good. On the other hand I've known of quite a few marriages that have broken up in their late 30s after getting together at 16/17 with the parties feeling they've missed out on having fun in their teens. I don't mean to sound snippy just I don't think most relationships of that age are going to turn into long term committed relationships so wouldn't go into one expecting it to. But that's probably down to my old old age. (and jealousy that I'm not that age any more.  )

I don't know.  Some people need practice for when they do find the long term relationship that will lead to marriage and kids.  They need to make mistakes, they even need to know what it's like to be hurt, they need to learn all sorts of things that they can only learn from other serious relationships, I don't see why they can't start having them at 17.  Just sounds kind of absurd.  So you're saying older than 17 is okay.  What if the relationship starts at 17 and lasts until 19 or 20?  was it not okay at 17 but the day they turn 18 or 19 it's fine?!

I say let the relationship be whatever it's going to be.  Putting labels on it like "this is only for fun," or "this is only a committed relationship" kind of defeats the purpose of learning about relationships in the first place.

[And Could He Play]

A lot to catch up on in here I go to work and come back to this madness

[firing squad]

She is distinctly average

this is not the Stewart Downing thread.

[RedJam70]

I don't know.  Some people need practice for when they do find the long term relationship that will lead to marriage and kids.  They need to make mistakes, they even need to know what it's like to be hurt, they need to learn all sorts of things that they can only learn from other serious relationships, I don't see why they can't start having them at 17.  Just sounds kind of absurd.  So you're saying older than 17 is okay.  What if the relationship starts at 17 and lasts until 19 or 20?  was it not okay at 17 but the day they turn 18 or 19 it's fine?!

I say let the relationship be whatever it's going to be.  Putting labels on it like "this is only for fun," or "this is only a committed relationship" kind of defeats the purpose of learning about relationships in the first place.

OK I can see your point, I suppose no-one goes into a relationship thinking it won't last whatever age. I'm not saying that a relationship at 17 won't turn out to be long term committed just in my experience it doesn't and that is probably colouring my opinion and therefore any advice I may give on the subject. I know if I was talking to my son and his brothers when they get to this age it would be what I've said above, have fun, live life and when you feel you're ready and with the girl you feel is the one then commit. I just wouldn't expect that to happen until he was older, if that did happen at 17 then I certainly wouldn't be against it, I might feel he was rushing it a little but I'd trust him to know it was right for them and help them in any way possible.

[LS7Leo]

this is not the Stewart Downing thread.

[macca888]

So anyone 17 or under should not be in a relationship?

Not with you, you fucking gimp.

[stevedo]

Does anyone know a way to find out if a girl likes/loves you?

When you remove the tape from her mouth, she doesn't scream.

[aurelian]

this is not the Stewart Downing thread.

There's nothing wrong with an average girlfriend.  Leo's life is part of a three year project.  He is going to just stick with the average girlfriend for now, until he's experienced and cool enough to move up to a girl that's super fit, really smart, great in bed, etc etc.  Just give him some time, a year or two with the average one, what he needs right now is stability.

[Sir Harvest Fields]

Oi fuckfaces, i just told a prospective bird i got sucked off by a bloke in a cavalier, and also by a St Johns Ambulance guy and she fucking logged off so iff u think u have it bad, ill fucking swap. Fucking hell. And that is the truth.

[firing squad]

Oi fuckfaces, i just told a prospective bird i got sucked off by a bloke in a cavalier, and also by a St Johns Ambulance guy and she fucking logged off so iff u think u have it bad, ill fucking swap. Fucking hell. And that is the truth.

you are too honest.  That kind of shit of yours only passes in Thailand.

[Sir Harvest Fields]

I got a reply. Not what i was expecting but ill post it here.................





20:13
Nah im not like that. I just tell my online friends that i got noshed off by a bloke in a Cavalier, and by a St Johns Ambulance guy.  Nowt like setting yerself up for a pisstake.



were they any good? lol

[Barneylfc∗]

 

[Barneylfc∗]

A lot to catch up on in here I go to work and come back to this madness

Leo is 16. His profile says 17 but he's 16. He's from Costa Del Sol. But he was born and bred in Carlow. He isn't sure if it is Carlow in Ireland or another Carlow. He might also be from Hull. But he isn't sure. He is Spanish, but he can't speak Spanish. He likes pretty girls, but doesn't want to have sex with them. He wants to have a relationship with someone who lives the other side of Spain. And he supports Malaga. And he doesn't like Siannn, but he might like Amir

[firing squad]

Leo is 16. His profile says 17 but he's 16. He's from Costa Del Sol. But he was born and bred in Carlow. He isn't sure if it is Carlow in Ireland or another Carlow. He might also be from Hull. But he isn't sure. He is Spanish, but he can't speak Spanish. He likes pretty girls, but doesn't want to have sex with them. He wants to have a relationship with someone who lives the other side of Spain. And he supports Malaga. And he doesn't like Siannn, but he might like Amir

actually, he clearly supports Villareal.

[And Could He Play]

Sounds like a confused mess, why doesn't he like sian ?

[Barneylfc∗]

Sounds like a confused mess, why doesn't he like sian ?

Not sure if he's clarified that. It could be because she is female

[Sir Harvest Fields]

Sounds like a confused mess, why doesn't he like sian ?

She is a female?

[LS7Leo]

I like Sian, who said i didn't? 

[Brian Blessed]

Is it possible there are two completely different people using the account?

[stevedo]

Is it possible there are two completely different people using the account?

Split personality scenario?
What do you all think, LS7Leo?

[LS7Leo]

No that is not true

[Brian Blessed]

Split personality scenario?
What do you all think, LS7Leo?

[jason42]

Older than 17 obviously.  In my experience and bearing in mind I have a 17 y/o son myself (god I feel old) 17 y/o's are usually(but not always) unready for a committed relationship of the "lets get married/live together, be together forever, have kids" kind. Some relationships last at 17, most don't so I wouldn't personally see more into it than having fun and then if it develops into more a few years down the line good. On the other hand I've known of quite a few marriages that have broken up in their late 30s after getting together at 16/17 with the parties feeling they've missed out on having fun in their teens. I don't mean to sound snippy just I don't think most relationships of that age are going to turn into long term committed relationships so wouldn't go into one expecting it to. But that's probably down to my old old age. (and jealousy that I'm not that age any more.  )

Debs and I were 17 when we started courting and 24 years later our relationship is stronger than ever..

[Sir Harvest Fields]

Debs and I were 17 when we started courting and 24 years later our relationship is stronger than ever..

She not me yet Jase.................

[jason42]

She not me yet Jase.................

And I have no intention of ever letting you anywhere near her