Personally, I think we played exactly as the Mancs wanted today - at 100 mph, and that's not how we like to play. I wouldn't say Gerrard let us down today, but he did dictate the tempo, and it was a tempo that none of our players (him included) can play well at. A bit like at Everton, but Rafa couldn't take him off today.
We didn't outplay them today, but we outran them - to our own damage. The only player to come out of today's game with a bit of credit was Mascherano - the only one capable of calmly stepping onto the ball and distributing it to one of our players. The rest was chaos - especially after they scored - kicking the ball in the general direction of their goal, shooting at first sight of the goal (including pathetic efforts by Riise with his right foot and Gerrard with his left, when other options where available) - essentially making it easy for the Mancs to clear.
What really annoys me is that their defence had a terrible day, but our lack of composure in front of goal let them get away with it. Once again they go away with three points from a game neither team deserved to win.
We're not out of the title race by a long way, but we now need to go on a long winning run, otherwise we will be soon enough.