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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11280 on: January 5, 2017, 10:52:59 pm »
Get on this. A lad joined the gym I go to at the end of October. He's only 10 weeks sober and has torched off 3 stone in weight already

I was chatting to him earlier. I noticed he had slimmed down a lot so I asked him if he's on some sort of crazy weight loss diet

He said no. All he did was fuck the liquor off. Said he still eats like a pig and still enjoys the odd take away on weekends

He puts in a good 3 to 4 hours per week in the gym mind, but fuck me, 3 stone in 10 weeks is some going in fairness

I'm about 3 stone lighter now than when I was pissed up. But that took about 6 to 8 months to drop off me

Just goes to show the benefits of quitting like, doesn't it?

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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11281 on: January 5, 2017, 11:07:52 pm »
Get on this. A lad joined the gym I go to at the end of October. He's only 10 weeks sober and has torched off 3 stone in weight already

I was chatting to him earlier. I noticed he had slimmed down a lot so I asked him if he's on some sort of crazy weight loss diet

He said no. All he did was fuck the liquor off. Said he still eats like a pig and still enjoys the odd take away on weekends

He puts in a good 3 to 4 hours per week in the gym mind, but fuck me, 3 stone in 10 weeks is some going in fairness

I'm about 3 stone lighter now than when I was pissed up. But that took about 6 to 8 months to drop off me

Just goes to show the benefits of quitting like, doesn't it?
Crazy isn't it?

Decided I'm off it meself now, wouldn't say I am a big drinker anyway but the past couple of months with the run up to Christmas and NYE have been full of boozed up nights which has made me gain weight!

I'd say its the day after a night out that kills me though, I just eat pure shite all day and night sometimes a takeaway dinner and tea on the same day to fight the hangover.

Not good at all.

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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11282 on: January 6, 2017, 12:05:30 pm »
The thing that makes me laugh is people who set new years resolutions to only drink on Friday and Saturday

Even if you only drink 6 pints on each night, that's still almost 2000 calories

You'd need to spend over 3 hours on a cross-trainer just to burn that off

That's not even including the shite you're likely to eat after a night on the piss
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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11283 on: January 9, 2017, 03:47:30 pm »
I must admit ive lost weight but im sure ill put it on now ive my appetite back :) Havent felt this good for ages if im honest. I can go from day to day not budgeting for my next beer etc. Instead of a beer etc i go to the model shop and get another tin of model paint for my current builds. Very satisfying. Also , i bought my first pair of jeans in years with the money i saved from not drinking :)


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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11284 on: January 9, 2017, 05:36:25 pm »
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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11285 on: January 9, 2017, 05:40:37 pm »
Great news mate!!

You've disappeared from Facebook, no?

I've been a stranger for personal reasons but now I'm out of the woods and doing good again.

Hope you're in a good place mate.  ;)

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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11286 on: January 9, 2017, 09:09:31 pm »
Great stuff Carl, keep it up buddy.

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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11287 on: January 10, 2017, 03:57:23 pm »
Thanks guys , i appreciate it. Ill be honest , although its only been two months im finding it very easy to not even think about a drink. Not sure what is different this time , maybe the knowledge that i was almost dead just before detox helped. By all accounts im lucky to still be here so i think its time i took the chance and did something worthwhile.

I hope everyone else is doing ok as well :)

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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11288 on: February 2, 2017, 09:54:17 am »
Still trotting along just fine, are you Carl?

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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11289 on: February 2, 2017, 10:11:21 am »
Not sure if I'm giving up forever yet, but I'm 30 days into doing 122. I picked 122 because I did that in prison and I figured, if I can do 122 days in there with all its negatives and not drink because it was impossible to get hold of, then I can simply not drink for 122 days when i can literally do everything else. Most of the time I don't miss it.

Moments I have found difficult so far are

-getting back home after the Wolves game and doing a massive shift in a bar - really desperate to have a couple of pints after that shift, especially as I finished and went to meet my girlfriend in a boozer open later than mine

-arriving in Liverpool for the Chelsea game with 2 and a half hours till the match on my own - time usually reserved for boozing, but forced myself into the ground an hour and 20 minutes before kick off and managed it.

-and finally a Sunday night where me and my girlfriend met five other mates and everyone's drinking but me. Tell you what, I really find the pub boring as fuck when I'm sober. There's no motivation to stay whatsoever and I end up convincing my girlfriend to leave about 10/half 10 and go home because I'm really not inclined to listen to people who have had 8/9/10 pints over the course of the day talk total bollocks at me. I still enjoy it as a meeting point, for a catch up, for a bite to eat, but I really struggle to spend anything longer than 2 hours in one boozer.

Positives are that I've spent the money I would have spent on more Liverpool games which is something I've always wanted to do (plus I've had no problem going the games and singing without drinking which I thought might be a stumbling bock), and I'm nearly out of my overdraft. Plus I do a big 10-15 mile cycle ride once a week and have started cycling everywhere again rather than getting the bus which is good as I don't do much exercise beyond that.
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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11290 on: February 2, 2017, 03:37:34 pm »
Thanks guys , i appreciate it. Ill be honest , although its only been two months im finding it very easy to not even think about a drink. Not sure what is different this time , maybe the knowledge that i was almost dead just before detox helped. By all accounts im lucky to still be here so i think its time i took the chance and did something worthwhile.

I hope everyone else is doing ok as well :)

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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11291 on: February 2, 2017, 04:37:17 pm »
Tell you what, I really find the pub boring as fuck when I'm sober.

Pubs are dull and frankly annoying places as a non drinker.
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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11292 on: February 4, 2017, 09:51:31 am »
Tell you what, I really find the pub boring as fuck when I'm sober.

I went out for a bite to eat with my old man not so long ago. Went to one of the local haunts where I used to drink on occasion. It's been almost ten years since I've been in there and literally nothing has changed. Looked around and saw the same regular faces, sitting in the same old places, talking the same old bollox, complaining about the same old shite and drinking the same old "pint of the usual". The only difference is they've clocked up a few more wrinkles and grey hairs since I last saw them

And I'm not talking about old geezers here. I'm talking about guys my age (35) who I went to school with and played football with. Pissing their health away, pissing their money away and just pissing their lives away in general. You often here people say "ah I'd miss going out and having a laugh with the lads if I gave it up". The truth is there's nothing to miss. They'll all probably still be there in ten years time and they probably will have never even noticed that you left
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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11293 on: February 4, 2017, 11:49:21 am »
Pubs are boring as hell when sober. Its just dull and to be honest you need to be pissed to tolerate the wankers at times. Its something i dont miss. Talking to my doctor the other day and my LFT results which should be 0-60 have gone from 1646 to 82 since detox. I said to him i do group sessions etc and if i am ever asked if its worth knocking it on the head i tell the truth. Its fucking hard but fuck me its worth it by a long way. Ive had some good piss ups etc but the lows far outweigh the plusses. Then again i can now say ' did '.
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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11294 on: February 4, 2017, 05:45:51 pm »
Well done Sir HF.  It's a great thing your're doing.

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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11295 on: February 4, 2017, 06:34:19 pm »
That LFT change is huge...

What an improvement...

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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11296 on: February 4, 2017, 06:38:16 pm »
Cheers guys. Yea my liver was a gnats pube from collapse im told. 6 times over the limit and feeling fine was not a good way to be. But i feel shit loads better and no more aching in my back and guts etc. Its great being teetotal :)
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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11297 on: February 11, 2017, 09:28:43 am »
Cheers guys. Yea my liver was a gnats pube from collapse im told. 6 times over the limit and feeling fine was not a good way to be. But i feel shit loads better and no more aching in my back and guts etc. Its great being teetotal :)

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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11298 on: February 13, 2017, 04:27:51 pm »
Cheers guys. Yea my liver was a gnats pube from collapse im told. 6 times over the limit and feeling fine was not a good way to be. But i feel shit loads better and no more aching in my back and guts etc. Its great being teetotal :)

That's great to hear Carl. Well done. When you pass day 50 you'll really start to notice the benefits of quitting. That's when you'll really come out of the daze and realize what a complete and absolute utter shit show drinking actually is.
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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11299 on: February 14, 2017, 11:22:04 pm »
Cheers guys. Yea my liver was a gnats pube from collapse im told. 6 times over the limit and feeling fine was not a good way to be. But i feel shit loads better and no more aching in my back and guts etc. Its great being teetotal :)

Well done mate. Seen you in here a lot so congratulations, I'm pleased things are moving in the right direction.

I've made it to 43 days today checking my app. It says I've saved about Ł246 based on my drinking habits and would you believe it, my overdraft is roughly Ł200 nearer getting paid off. So feel better overall, and I'm closer to paying off my overdraft (or replacing my laptop ;D )

At least 79 days for me to go to reach the 122.
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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11300 on: February 15, 2017, 10:32:09 am »
Well done mate. Seen you in here a lot so congratulations, I'm pleased things are moving in the right direction.

I've made it to 43 days today checking my app. It says I've saved about Ł246 based on my drinking habits and would you believe it, my overdraft is roughly Ł200 nearer getting paid off. So feel better overall, and I'm closer to paying off my overdraft (or replacing my laptop ;D )

At least 79 days for me to go to reach the 122.

Great stuff. Keep it up. You should notice a few pounds in weight drop off too
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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11301 on: February 22, 2017, 08:10:48 am »
Well, i rehomed a greyhound called Cory on saturday and to be able to focus on him is great. Therapy at its best. He is still adjusting but then again so am i.
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« Reply #11302 on: February 22, 2017, 08:57:01 am »
Well, i rehomed a greyhound called Cory on saturday and to be able to focus on him is great. Therapy at its best. He is still adjusting but then again so am i.

That's great, a good focus to have and one that will give you loads of pleasure as well.
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« Reply #11303 on: February 22, 2017, 09:24:49 pm »
Well, i rehomed a greyhound called Cory on saturday and to be able to focus on him is great. Therapy at its best. He is still adjusting but then again so am i.

I'm surprised. I thought you'd have gone for a nice cat   ;D
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« Reply #11304 on: February 22, 2017, 09:45:15 pm »
I'm surprised. I thought you'd have gone for a nice cat   ;D

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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11305 on: February 22, 2017, 10:18:02 pm »
and one that will give you loads of pleasure as well.

this is the part that worries me

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« Reply #11306 on: February 23, 2017, 10:45:14 am »
Hes gone for a greyhound so he can catch the cat

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« Reply #11307 on: February 23, 2017, 11:06:40 am »
this is the part that worries me

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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11308 on: April 20, 2017, 05:58:31 pm »
Ok guys i lapsed. My Fiancee dumped me and i just resorted back to memory loss via alcohol. Its just a lapse and it is ending. I have been offered a job which is good. Im playing guitar a lot more for now considering i was close to quitting. Just another kick in the fucking balls that i will have to recover from.
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« Reply #11309 on: April 20, 2017, 06:31:34 pm »
Sorry to hear that but as long as it's just a lapse it's no big deal. I quit in December 2014 I think and relapsed one night for similar reasons to you about 10 months ago but told myself it's a one-off, didn't beat myself up about it and been sober again ever since. How you react to it is far more important than the relapse itself. But you know that already so you'll be fine.

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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11310 on: April 20, 2017, 06:55:36 pm »
Ok guys i lapsed. My Fiancee dumped me and i just resorted back to memory loss via alcohol. Its just a lapse and it is ending. I have been offered a job which is good. Im playing guitar a lot more for now considering i was close to quitting. Just another kick in the fucking balls that i will have to recover from.
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« Reply #11311 on: April 20, 2017, 07:24:08 pm »
Yes the same day im to start my new job. Typical.
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« Reply #11312 on: April 20, 2017, 07:30:08 pm »
Yes the same day im to start my new job. Typical.
Pretty tough time then....

I guess you've got to look forward to the new job and what comes after the court case.
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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11313 on: April 20, 2017, 07:33:25 pm »
Yea prison...
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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11314 on: April 20, 2017, 07:36:16 pm »
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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11315 on: April 20, 2017, 07:41:21 pm »
If i do ill kick off as i did nothing wrong
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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11316 on: April 20, 2017, 07:43:53 pm »
If i do ill kick off as i did nothing wrong

Well, I can see your point...

But that won't make you any happier will it?
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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11317 on: April 20, 2017, 08:06:52 pm »
At this precise moment in time i struggle to see what will make me happy.
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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11318 on: April 20, 2017, 08:09:21 pm »
At this precise moment in time i struggle to see what will make me happy.
Yeah it must be a bloody fidfficukt time for you mate, but there's always happiness on the horizon...

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Re: Alcohol Issues
« Reply #11319 on: April 20, 2017, 08:19:21 pm »
Yeah it must be a bloody fidfficukt time for you mate, but there's always happiness on the horizon...



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