It's a point Rory Stewart was making in that video I posted yesterday too. He framed it as declaring a marriage over and walking out then trying to slink back in a couple of years later to immediately start making demands about things with which you didn't agree.
Against that, the division in the country - and the absence of a unifying compromise - means we're a bit stuck.
Institute for Government have put out what needs to happen should May's 'deal' be passed by Parliament: https://www.instituteforgovernment.org.uk/explainers/withdrawal-agreement-bill
One of the authors points out that past such legislation has required 80+ (Maastricht) and 120+ (Lisbon) votes to get through. No stable majority to push it through to the end and there is a problem once we pass the point of being able to hold European elections.
If Stewart wants to use a marriage analogy then I think a marriage of convenience is a better analogy, who said everyone has to love each other to make the arrangement work.
I think it's important to remember our government didn't want us to actually leave and the EU know this. the senior politicians we have now have to go and they will.
The country is divided and we have to accept it. how will it effect future election campaigns is a worry. if Brexit proves to be a vote loser for Labour which it is then they can expect to loose many seats with MPs making Brexit arguments. the same applies to the Tories, we know many Tories are pro Brexit so the backlash will be less severe but who knows, the Tories may loose many marginal seats for supporting Brexit.
The whole situation is a mess but sadly I can see the Tories wining a majority after Mays gone.
Ive spoken to 3 Labour remain supporters over the last few days alone and they all have sympathy for May. poor girl had a impossible task, telling them it's all of her own making makes no difference and they right in a way. there was never going to be a compromise Brexit just as theres never going to be a brexit that unites the country. still doesn't mean I have any sympathy for May or Corbyn
They have both played a part in splitting the country in half over the last 2 1/2 yrs with there fantasy Brexit promises.
How we must respect the result of the referendum even though we know this means economic disaster has left us where we are now. MPs too scared to stop Brexit.
The country needed leaders and all we had was incompetent bluff merchants.