To be fair, the Boko Haram end of the spectrum can go fuck itself.
This links to the logical fallacy that is 'conservative' argument.
'conservatives' try to make a direct comparison between their ideals and those of liberals. As in, they both have equal logical merit so it's a case of preference, and therefore why should the liberals' preference be taken over the conservatives'?
Yet the liberal perspective is that people should have the freedom to be who they want - eg, consensually sleep with who they want, marry who they want, etc. If you don't want to be in a gay relationship, nobody is going to force you to be. It's your choice.
The conservative perspective is along the lines of "I don't believe people should be in gay relationships/marriage, so I want to outlaw gay relationships/marriage."
One perspective seeks to allow personal freedoms and choice (a liberal person can live the life they want to, the conservative can live the life they want to); the other aims to impose their own puritanical views on everyone else.
There is no logical equivalence.