I have lived outside UK for 20 years but still have large group of family and friends back home (Some for and some against Brexit), so I care a lot about where this is going. I also read as much as I can from both sides on the implications of Brexit. I have many non-British friends in Europe now and we share our views a lot. They don't really agree or disagree with UKs Brexit, we are past that, rather they think we are sort of mad, misled and are not facing reality. In fact I have German, French, Italian, Belgian, Swiss, Irish friends and they all genuinely really like the UK and it's people but think we are basically burying our heads in the sand & self destructing. No real malice in their views expressed to me, just somewhat sadness and major disbelief - but to be honest, here it is basically/naturally pro Europe, the difference being the thinking on Brexit is much more fact based and business common sense based. There has never been an impression that Europe was overpowering or dominating/imposing on the UK. Still no malice expressed to me in what is happening.
Like many in this thread I (and honestly my friends here) was/were hoping for some opposition, a logical intervention, common sense, reality check to stop the self destructing madness. It hasn't happened. This hope is changing now as reality sets in. After the Brexit Party success in Euro elections and now a clown as PM, it has made me/us realise it's past common sense point and sadly just needs to get done now. The spin and blame is now the prime motivation and there is little or no factual thread to any of it. It isn't right and doesn't sit well, but it's gone too far. A revoke or referendum would likely cause such problems without some level of fact based perspective which seemingly isn't there and isn't wanted by a mass of "the winners". No other outcome is likely to happen without strong opposition.
Going forward from now and post Brexit, someone with influence, somehow needs to champion a fact based understanding of all this, because the hard times coming and business impacts, economy likely crashing, will not be managed any better by blaming Euro bureaucrats etc. The same Europe will no doubt be forced to be consequential in a hard scenario. How can they not?
Britain hasn't been forced into a loss of decision making or sovereignty (I can see tons of examples from here of historical big UK opt outs like Euro V's Sterling, Miles V's KM, etc. etc.) However losing scale on trade deals etc. hard borders, or not respecting an orderly Brexit will be obviously very problematic. These are consequential facts and just common sense reality. This no deal also craps all over Ireland/Northern Ireland, that's so sad and we go backwards.
So this is all very difficult, viewing it from Europe. Britain will obviously give EU 27 no choice now but to play hardball. Up to now Europe has just experienced Britain flop along, decide to leave (Europe didn't want this), Britain to negotiate and agree a deal, to come up with red-lines and a backstop, no alignment achieved in Parliament after many tries (basically the UK political system currently doesn't work for such a major and marginalising issue). There is no agreement and no organised opposition - From Europe (which we all know isn't perfect by the way) This is clearly political dysfunction. Now Britain changes it's mind and threatens a no deal, which was never, ever the idea, but is being spun as the most likely outcome. A pure childish, self destruct approach. It looks so messed up & arrogant from here, hard to know what to say or how to explain/defend it.
So sadly, barring a miracle, we are at the point where the UK needs to get on with it, business and economy crash, and (To my great sadness) normal people hard impacted, blame Europe, spin and repeat. The sooner it is done the easier it will be (from here anyway) for basically good people to finally separate spin from reality and fix some of what we break.
I just hope now there was a leader somewhere coming forward with influence and credibility who could put the real facts on the table and address the real issues. The "will of the people" spin and blame is killing the country. Politics replaced by selfishness, aggression, bullshit & buffoonery.
It will get much worse for now, but I am sure will not be easily sustainable setup after a no deal exit and losing the alliance, weight and security of our ex-European partners.
UK will need a major reset after this mess gets done. We then will need see a new leader step forward to fix this mess. God help the UK if Parliament continues as messed up as it is.