Its absolutely horrible isnt it
about 5 years ago mine flared up on my legs. they itched like crazy, wearing jeans and even socks irritated the fuck out of me. hot water was a short term relief but long term did more harm than good. Skin would go all weepy and scabby, fabric of clothes would stick to you etc.
visit to a doctor, some of that aveeno shower gel was recommended but jesus its dear, some other creams aswell, hydrocortisone, steroid cream etc and it seemed to clear it up
my hands however got real bad, I wash them a lot, I have an allergy to dust, i try to use hand cream etc. I wash them a lot but that didnt help of course. I just hate having dirty hands, an ad i saw years ago about some guy giving himself food poisoning stuck with me (in the ad, he sneezed into his hands before eating a sandwich). also i hate when i see people going to a toilet and not washing their hands, one person really annoyed me over this. We had a french student years ago who just never washed his hands, he was using our computer and the dirt of the computer mouse after him was stomach turning.
I literally scrub them clean but about late 2011 early 2012 they started to get real bad, itchy, sweaty, scabby, skin would feel tight etc. Our doctor was quite dear at the time so i was reluctant to go (the previous time i went with my legs it set me back 90 euro).
It dragged on for years, its easy to say dont scratch it but sometimes you cant help yourself. Tried wearing gloves and used all sorts of moisturizer and creams etc. Would clear up then eventually it was if your skin got immune to the treatment and you would be just back to square one.
Again sometimes boiling hot water was sometimes the only way to get relief but as i said before that would only make things worse in the long run, i was getting married last year and i didnt wanna have red raw scabby bloody looking hands for that. I went for an allergy test about 3 months prior and they said sodium was something showing up as something I would take a reaction too and to cut it down. The only thing is its in bloody everything from milk, to soup to even shower gel and soap.
However the creams they gave me and the free prescriptions i now have in the uk seem to have finally cleared it up.
Its absolutely horrible when you have it though, you feel like a freak.