*disclaimer* no offence to any drug users on here
i fell out with my cousin who got into weed then harder stuff
i tried to help him initially but he just didn't want to stop
he ended up borrowing money and not paying it back
stealing money from family - even breaking into their houses - and denying it to their faces
he would pass his kids around leaving them with anyone including other drug-users
he would only care about himself or being down at the bookies or doing drugs with his 'mates'
when he died of a drug and alcohol 'incident' i didn't even shed one tear
i refused to go to his funeral - that was a big shock in the family - but i have never regretted it
he didn't show anyone else any respect and i didn't want to hear the old crap of 'how such a loving father he was' or 'he was a lovely lad' - he wasn't, he was and still is a tit and let's just say that if there's a heaven and a hell then he won't need a warm coat