Bumping the thread to say I finished this for the first time last week!
I originally bought it on release day, played for an hour just to die a lot and shelved it for years. I had no idea at the time that this was the point of the game
Around Christmas 2020 I picked it up again and put a lot more effort into it, and got very far with a Skill/Arcane build (35 hour save!). I ended up giving up to the dual pathways of Lady Maria, and the Winter Lanterns at the Nightmare of Mensis. (Lady Maria & The Winter Lanterns is a great band name). I couldn't damage her enough nor get past the Frenzy state.
Last week I loaded up the game again and picked the day-one character I had put an hour into back on day one March 2015, and smashed the game in three days. It helps when you know what you're doing! This time I just legged it past the Winter Lanterns instead of trying to engage them, which was smarter. This run, I did a couple of early Chalices and didn't go near the DLC as I just wanted to finish the damn game. On my next character I promise I'll give the DLC a proper attempt again, I owe Lady Maria an arse kicking and I'm much better at parrying now.
Can't believe that took me 6 years to do!