Haven't played Bloodborne so can't compare, but I wouldn't discount Sekiro if I was you Pete. I did and I was wrong to. Main difficulty in that game comes from learning to properly use deflect - which is really different to Souls games. But the game gives you all the time in the world to learn this and slowly eases you into it. Once it clicks - it's very, very good. There are other things to help you along, like the resurrection ability, not thinking about stamina and stealth being super viable and fun way to almost completely clear some levels or ambush bosses to soften them up.