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Socratease · « **on:** October 24, 2021, 11:38:40 pm »

A Beautiful Light Has Gone Out Of My Life

A beautiful light has gone out of my life today at 12:55
I said to my wife, "Laureen, I love you!", and her last words were, "I love you..." as I heard her breath become quieter until I could not hear or feel it anymore - I could not detect her pulse in her neck.

We had just had the consultant in before hand and he knew what we feared, myself and daughter, that this was the last goodbye.

We have been married for 35 years and 50 weeks, two weeks from Tuesday would have been our 36th wedding anniversary on the 9th of November.

I am in absolute grief and shock.

My heart is broken.

Never have I been so loved,

Never have I loved so much.

I have always loved you and I will forever hold our love in my heart my darling.

,

John C · « **Reply #1 on:** October 24, 2021, 11:45:51 pm »

Ah, crap mate. So, so sorry for you're loss. It's news we didn't want to hear.

Take care of yourself, we're all here for you.

Wabaloolah · « **Reply #2 on:** October 25, 2021, 12:15:16 am »

Sorry to hear that fella, my thoughts are with you and your daughter at this sad time. Be strong, time is a great healer, it might not seem like it at the moment but the darkness will get lighter and you will learn to live again

HarryLabrador · « **Reply #3 on:** October 25, 2021, 12:16:00 am »

This is so sad. I have just jumped into bed when I read your incredibly moving post. Just so sorry for your loss. Best wishes to you and your family.

scatman · « **Reply #4 on:** October 25, 2021, 12:37:34 am »

So sorry for your loss, take care of yourself, your daughter and your family.

Son of Spion · « **Reply #5 on:** October 25, 2021, 01:23:38 am »

Oh no.

I am so, so sorry to hear of your devastating loss.

May your cherished memories of your life together serve as some form of comfort in the years ahead.

In the meantime, I offer my sincere condolences to you, your family and all who knew and loved your beloved wife. May she rest in peace.

tinner777 · « **Reply #6 on:** October 25, 2021, 01:35:58 am »

hey, so sorry for your loss. May she rest in peace.

If you need a stranger to listen to your thoughts to, please pm.

look after yourself.

Samie · « **Reply #7 on:** October 25, 2021, 01:38:45 am »

Sorry to hear that mate.

RIP

Buggy Eyes Alfredo · « **Reply #8 on:** October 25, 2021, 06:31:08 am »

All of the memories, your daughter and yourself, will always be there. Never forget her and she always lives. She knew that you could be gone in a heartbeat. So enjoying every moment and living in the now is very important for both of you. She was loved by her friends and family, may she please rest in peace.

Zeb · « **Reply #9 on:** October 25, 2021, 07:53:21 am »

Oh mate, sending you both a ton of love.

west_london_red · « **Reply #10 on:** October 25, 2021, 07:56:31 am »

So very sorry for your loss

RIP & YNWA

El Lobo · « **Reply #11 on:** October 25, 2021, 08:30:59 am »

So sorry for your loss

Hendollama · « **Reply #12 on:** October 25, 2021, 08:37:19 am »

Sorry for your loss.

No666 · « **Reply #13 on:** October 25, 2021, 08:44:50 am »

So sorry to read this. Take care of yourself and your daughter.

Red-Soldier · « **Reply #14 on:** October 25, 2021, 09:02:23 am »

Sorry for your loss. Go easy on yourselves.

TepidT2O · « **Reply #15 on:** October 25, 2021, 09:16:06 am »

Beautiful words, but so so sad. So sorry for your loss.

Always support in here if you need it mate. You’re never alone.

Kekule · « **Reply #16 on:** October 25, 2021, 09:21:40 am »

Very sorry to read this. It sounds like she knew she was loved, and that you know she loved you, so try to take solace in that.

Be kind to yourself over the coming weeks and months.

Crosby Nick · « **Reply #17 on:** October 25, 2021, 09:24:24 am »

Very sorry to read this, thoughts are with you and the family. Take care.

Linudden · « **Reply #18 on:** October 25, 2021, 12:32:18 pm »

Stay strong Socratease and my condolences to you and the rest of the family.

Cruiser · « **Reply #19 on:** October 25, 2021, 12:47:34 pm »

Really sorry to hear this. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

Have recently been through bereavement too. I'm with you mate. Stay strong and your LFC family is always here for you.

kavah · « **Reply #20 on:** October 25, 2021, 12:50:44 pm »

So sorry for your loss. YNWA

Hazell · « **Reply #21 on:** October 25, 2021, 12:51:37 pm »

Sorry for your loss mate. Best wishes to you and your family.

RIP.

Andy @ Allerton! · « **Reply #22 on:** October 25, 2021, 12:57:04 pm »

Quote from: Socratease on October 24, 2021, 11:38:40 pm

A Beautiful Light Has Gone Out Of My Life

A beautiful light has gone out of my life today at 12:55
I said to my wife, "Laureen, I love you!", and her last words were, "I love you..." as I heard her breath become quieter until I could not hear or feel it anymore - I could not detect her pulse in her neck.

We had just had the consultant in before hand and he knew what we feared, myself and daughter, that this was the last goodbye.

We have been married for 35 years and 50 weeks, two weeks from Tuesday would have been our 36th wedding anniversary on the 9th of November.

I am in absolute grief and shock.

My heart is broken.

Never have I been so loved,

Never have I loved so much.

I have always loved you and I will forever hold our love in my heart my darling.

,

Really sorry to hear that

RIP

The G in Gerrard · « **Reply #23 on:** October 25, 2021, 01:16:51 pm »

Sorry for your loss. RIP.

Stubbins · « **Reply #24 on:** October 25, 2021, 03:28:47 pm »

Really saddened to read this Socratease. You clearly had a wonderful marriage. I can only try and imagine what you're feeling right now and my heart goes out to you and your daughter. Take care of each other.

nayia2002 · « **Reply #25 on:** October 25, 2021, 03:50:10 pm »

So sorry for your loss.
May she rest in peace.

exiledintheUSA · « **Reply #26 on:** October 25, 2021, 04:11:23 pm »

So, so sorry for your loss. Take care of you and your daughter. RIP.

Nobby Reserve · « **Reply #27 on:** October 25, 2021, 04:53:32 pm »

Sorry to hear this. Condolences to you and your family.

RainbowFlick · « **Reply #28 on:** October 25, 2021, 05:04:58 pm »

Really saddening. Sending love to you and your family. YNWA.

ABZ Rover · « **Reply #29 on:** October 25, 2021, 05:37:57 pm »

A true lifetime of love that will live on forever in your heart.

My sincere condolences to you and you family.

jillcwhomever · « **Reply #30 on:** October 25, 2021, 06:12:10 pm »

That is so sad, but such a beautiful tribute to her. Her memory will stay with you, in the meantime stay strong and take care of yourself.

Dr. Beaker · « **Reply #31 on:** October 25, 2021, 08:23:28 pm »

Red Beret · « **Reply #32 on:** October 25, 2021, 08:28:14 pm »

So so sorry to hear. Hugs to you and your family mate.

RedSince86 · « **Reply #33 on:** October 25, 2021, 08:29:39 pm »

Sorry for your loss.

RIP.

redgriffin73 · « **Reply #34 on:** October 25, 2021, 09:36:13 pm »

So sorry for your loss, take care. X

Socratease · « **Reply #35 on:** October 25, 2021, 11:00:36 pm »

Thank you all, each and everyone of you for your kind thoughts and condolences.

,

AA1122 · « **Reply #36 on:** October 25, 2021, 11:20:27 pm »

Sorry for your loss.

Heartbreaking to read.

Take care of yourself and your loved ones.

thaddeus · « **Reply #37 on:** October 26, 2021, 08:46:37 am »

A lovely tribute, Socratease! Thoughts are with you and your daughter.

YNWA

ChaChaMooMoo · « **Reply #38 on:** October 26, 2021, 09:42:14 am »

Sorry for your loss mate. Deepest condolences and support to you and your daughter.

Ray K · « **Reply #39 on:** October 26, 2021, 01:04:44 pm »

Oh God, I'm so very sorry to hear this news. All our love and support to you and your family at this horrendous time.