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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #240 on: April 9, 2012, 01:07:28 PM »
Really wonderful OP. This is exactly how I feel - all the people rushing and scrambling to find one single thing to shoulder the blame seems tone deaf at best. There's nothing to do but support the team, through the worst of it all. Don't be a glory hunter, be a supporter!

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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #241 on: April 9, 2012, 01:18:42 PM »
I think those that are almost expecting an Everton victory and the fans turning on Dalglish are way wide of the mark, firstly we'll win, secondly the crowd at Wembley won't turn on Kenny, regardless. Don't fall into the trap of believing this tired gaff is  anything like representative of the fans who travel to support the reds, its simply a million miles from that.
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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #242 on: April 9, 2012, 01:23:15 PM »
I think those that are almost expecting an Everton victory and the fans turning on Dalglish are way wide of the mark, firstly we'll win, secondly the crowd at Wembley won't turn on Kenny, regardless. Don't fall into the trap of believing this tired gaff is  anything like representative of the fans who travel to support the reds, its simply a million miles from that.
I had someone on my coach back from the CC final calling for his head. Just saying.
Agree that the majority of the crowd won't turn on him right then and there, but they sure might after. to be honest I'm absolutely bricking it for him. I'd so much rather get all the shit in the world of the bluenoses than having to listen to our own 'fans' should we not win.
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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #243 on: April 9, 2012, 01:37:26 PM »
We'll see but as much as i can't stand people in gaffs like this, i generally trust the match hoing fans, especially the away crowd.
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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #244 on: April 9, 2012, 01:39:18 PM »
We'll see but as much as i can't stand people in gaffs like this, i generally trust the match hoing fans, especially the away crowd.

Dont want to sound like a total WUM, but it was the match going fans who boo'ed the team when top of the league.
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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #245 on: April 9, 2012, 01:42:16 PM »
Dont want to sound like a total WUM, but it was the match going fans who boo'ed the team when top of the league.
I think you'll find that was at home. Either way, it's a bit shite really.
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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #246 on: April 9, 2012, 01:43:09 PM »
Well, don't want to get involved in this one because I haven't been since Rafa got sacked, but I think I know enough to say, it's not the match going fans Dalglish has to worry about. There'll be the odd moan, but the majority will keep it in line. It's the phone ins and forums, I think people are underestimating. The spread of discontent was woeful last time round and it's just destructive. It's put us back. It's gave Kenny the mess he's trying to sort out. I hope to fuck lightning can't strik a third time.
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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #247 on: April 9, 2012, 01:44:15 PM »
I think you'll find that was at home. Either way, it's a bit shite really.

I know it was at home vs West ham if memory serves me correct. But with 30-40,000 fans at the Semi, that will be more then just the usual away fans.
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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #248 on: April 9, 2012, 01:47:16 PM »
I know it was at home vs West ham if memory serves me correct. But with 30-40,000 fans at the Semi, that will be more then just the usual away fans.
Of course, but a large proportion rotate through ticket availability and just being skint, so you could guesstimate about 20-30% will have done at some time the aways. And I don't mean the odd one either.
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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #249 on: April 9, 2012, 01:49:20 PM »
Dont want to sound like a total WUM, but it was the match going fans who boo'ed the team when top of the league.

It was, which was unusual. Same bood after the wigan game, but got behind team partic last 20 on Saturday. Just dont think that a Wembley crowd would turn on Kenny (or the team come to that)
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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #250 on: April 9, 2012, 01:55:36 PM »
The prevalence of "aaahhhh"'s flowing down on to the pitch every time someone makes a mistake, particularly for the young lads, is a disgrace.
Cant remember it ever being the case, or at least not to the consistent use recently. Lucas got it bad, henderson gets it now on a consistant basis. Think I heard it aimed at Sterling on his cameo. I used to be an Oooh, or an applause, but now its a cry of frustration. Even when things are going well for the team, you can hear it.

It cant do any of the players, young or experienced, to hear sighs of exasperation on mass. No wonder there's no confidence on the pitch.

Our jobs as supporters, not fans, is to support, encourage, gee up if need be. But not to sigh like some fussy mother. So can it, if you feel it rising, turn it in to a throaty roar, you'll feel better.
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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #251 on: April 9, 2012, 02:01:25 PM »
I know, I know your all going to tell me I shouldn't watch the shite but I didn't like Martin Lipton's facial expressions and body language towards Ollie Kay on the SS yesterday. Ollie wasn't even trying to defend Kenny, he was acknowledging it was unacceptable but I think Lipton was a bit snide and wanted to make more of our situation (you'd have to actually see it). I tweeted him a couple of times to give him the opportunity to explain exactly what his problem was with either LFC or Kenny. After reminding him we we'd won a cup and Kenny was going to put right some errors in the summer so it was happy days I was told I was "deluded".
So we carry on sharing / discussing our concerns about our football with each other as far as I'm concerned, but we unite as one with tenacious support for our manager. And we make sure those fuckers watching understand we are not deluded, it is us not fucking them that knows whats best for our club.

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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #252 on: April 9, 2012, 02:27:53 PM »
No mate. Our reaction is the thing that is used to guage what's happening at the club. FSG will use it as an indicator. John Henry is not a stupid man. He ween us oust H&G. He made sure his first action as owner was to meet with us. The sacking of Hodgson and hiring of Dalglish was a direct result of what  we demanded. I don't think FSG would dare go against us after seeing what happened to H&G. But if they see us continually moaning, they will see it as an indication that there'd be no revolt if Dalglish was fired.
I don't know if they'd knee jerk and do it before the end of his contract. But make no mistake, they will consider fan reaction when making a decision. I'm sure there's loads who'd be happy to see Kenny go now, but as many have said in here... the team is in transition. Kenny needs and deserves time. If he doesn't get it, what chance any one else.
As I said, at the beginning of the thread, there's no holding back the whingeing and demanding. Kenny needs to turn this round quick or the moaning will go on, and what are none football people like FSG going to make of it... I can't see any othere answer than - the fans aren't happy. The job's not being done right, maybe we need to review this situation.
The moaners got their wish with Rafa. They got their wishes on the hiring and firing of Hodgson. Kenny's past will protect him to a certain extent, but if the whingeing carries on... well, what else can FSG go on, when fans whingeing and managers getting sacked is all the experience they have.
Do you think there would be a revolt if Kenny was asked to step aside? Lets face it, he would not be sacked. He would be given another role in the club.
I think he will be given another season. I hope he looks at his staff as well as the squad. By that I mean both the coaching and medical team. Lets face it our performances have dropped since our "renowned" sports science department took over fitness in Rafa`s last season. I even remember a video given by one of the physios posted on here. He was explaining how a striker like Andy Carroll didn`t have to be as well conditioned as a midfielder since he will not have to run as much during a match. I couldn`t understand that then or now. Modern day strikers need  to be able to run themselves into the ground for 90 minutes and still be sharp enough to put away a chance in the 94th due to a tired defenders mistake. That only comes through proper conditioning.
Look at everyone from Steve Clarke down. If they are not doing their jobs then find out why and get it fixed. If that means new coaches then so be it.
People on here are saying it may take 5 or 6 years. But if it is done right it may happen in 2 or 3.
There really isn't.  I think a lot of us, even our own have started doubting it. It's time to rise up. And take what is rightfully ours. It's a big mountain, but what is the point in achieving something, which everyone can?

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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #253 on: April 9, 2012, 02:34:17 PM »
The prevalence of "aaahhhh"'s flowing down on to the pitch every time someone makes a mistake, particularly for the young lads, is a disgrace.
Cant remember it ever being the case, or at least not to the consistent use recently. Lucas got it bad, henderson gets it now on a consistant basis. Think I heard it aimed at Sterling on his cameo. I used to be an Oooh, or an applause, but now its a cry of frustration. Even when things are going well for the team, you can hear it.

It cant do any of the players, young or experienced, to hear sighs of exasperation on mass. No wonder there's no confidence on the pitch.

Our jobs as supporters, not fans, is to support, encourage, gee up if need be. But not to sigh like some fussy mother. So can it, if you feel it rising, turn it in to a throaty roar, you'll feel better.
Funnily enough I was watching Barca v Milan last week and everytime anyone from Messi to Mascherano misplaced a pass the croed got on their back. That`s football. Players learn to deal with it.
There really isn't.  I think a lot of us, even our own have started doubting it. It's time to rise up. And take what is rightfully ours. It's a big mountain, but what is the point in achieving something, which everyone can?

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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #254 on: April 9, 2012, 02:36:24 PM »
Do you think there would be a revolt if Kenny was asked to step aside? Lets face it, he would not be sacked. He would be given another role in the club.

There should be. Kenny will go of his own accord when he believes he can take us no further and that's good enough for me.

People on here are saying it may take 5 or 6 years. But if it is done right it may happen in 2 or 3.

Anyone would be lucky to get 6 months if the reaction on here is anything to go by.
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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #255 on: April 9, 2012, 02:39:37 PM »
Great post, needed it. Thanks.,

I'd change the title to something less condescending though.

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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #256 on: April 9, 2012, 02:42:55 PM »
It was, which was unusual. Same bood after the wigan game, but got behind team partic last 20 on Saturday. Just dont think that a Wembley crowd would turn on Kenny (or the team come to that)

I completely agree with this and I don't see it happening at the match on Saturday (if we lose, which like John I don't believe we will). However, there has been a definite change in the matchgoing crowd even from the days of, say, Houllier when I remember almost unanimous support for him in the ground until almost the very end when it did turn. A couple of fellas were chatting to me upstairs in the Solly before Villa listing Kenny's failings, saying he needed to go and saying a lot of the older fans 'hate him'. They were bellends but seemed to be at least semi-regular matchgoers and I don't remember hearing any of that kind of nonsense amongst the matchgoing support until very late in Houllier's reign. Whereas you did see it on the internet even back then although obviously the internet wasn't as widely-used as it is now.
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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #257 on: April 9, 2012, 02:58:28 PM »
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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #258 on: April 9, 2012, 02:59:54 PM »
I understand what you're saying. It must be shite. I'm not taking the piss. I was lucky enough to have been born a 5 minute walk from Anfield. In Shankly's barren years, what a lot of aul arses use to preach patience, going the match was fucking great, probably some of the happiest times of me life. We didn't have all the distractions either. Leisure time... we pretty much played football in the street and went to watch it when we weren't playing. And, believe it or not, it might sound like sentimental twaddle, but, despite the fights we had amongst ourselves, standing on the kop did feel like being a member of a big society.
I have lived outside of Liverpool and been surrounded by Mancs and Man U supporters at times. I know how shite it feels to be at the end of all the piss taking. I also know what John means when he says you're spoilt rotten. I often say it meself to young fellas when they start moaning. It's true. For all our failings in the league, we still have a record most clubs fans will never see in ten life times. But me point is....
We probably won't win a title again until we all stop moaning and get behind the team. Dalglish is facing fearsome odds. The Mancs are entrenched. The mega bucks of City and Chelsea haven't knocked them off the perch just yet. If it wasn't for Arsenal, they'd be titles ahead of us by now. For us to start catching them up, with our resources, we will need every one of us pulling in the same direction, all doing our job. Our's is suporting, not putting pressure on the team. It's been there to see for years now... the team start like a train. If we can't break teams down, the rumblings start in the stands the nerves start to fray on the pitch.
We need to get that old swagger, confidence and self belief back. The teams not that far behind the rest. The mentality needs to change. But if we expect the players to get their heads down, work hard and put it right, well, shouldn't we expect the same of ourselves?
Just a thought like, as I know getting on their backs hasn't worked.

I think you are right FS.

A lot of people hav been battered from all the past events.  Getting rid of Rafa, H&G, Internet terrorism, Court cases..........whatever it was, for some there was a tipping point that made some lose heart.

We had Rafa who took us to CL glory days and 2nd in the Prem.   We expected that to continue and improve and it didn't.

We got sold by Moores and hoped that would bring investment and improvement and it didn't.

We got taken to the cleaners and saw the club dragged through the courts and the invention of internet terrorism while all the time seeing in the press and from the likes of 'Arry how we were wrong to criticise the owners.

We saw the inception of SOS and fans marching on the streets to save the club.

We got new owners and Hodgson, and fought and called for Kenny - and got him and thought everything was fixed.

When Kenny he immediately gave everyone a huge lift, we started to climb up the table, 'could he get us into the top 4 again?' - well not quite but we started this season with more hope than the last one and many feel that they have been disappointed yet again, and I wonder if a lot of the bitching and moaning is not so much due to impatience (although that is part of it) but fear.

Fear that we will never get the glory days back, fears that Kenny isn't up to the job, that Comolli has too much say, that FSG wont invest heavily enough and that we are becoming a mid table team.  Fear that after all the years of fighting and disappointments of the past years any improvement will be minimal and that the win of the odd cup now and again is the best we can do because winning games in the League is too hard for us.

It is hard to get that old swagger back that you mention FS, when many approach upcoming games with trepidation, but that is exactly what we have to do.  It's not a question of young or auld arses, OOT or local it's a question of supporting each other (as fans I mean) through the bad times, picking each other up not rubbishing each others ideas, or  saying they can't be arsed.

That us why it is good to see efforts being made by that new group that has been set up (can't remember what they have decided to call themselves now!) to try and get a better atmosphere going at Anfield.

I know there were some comments made on that thread, as there have been on this one, saying it's a waste of time, won't happen etc with just a few being willing to make the effort and get involved, but more need to be making the effort.

It may be just a small thing but it is a start, a sign that there are some still willing to do something, work to get the support vocal and doing what they should be doing.  It takes people to make the effort though, young or auld arses, OOT or local it doesn't matter.




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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #259 on: April 9, 2012, 03:01:04 PM »
Do you think there would be a revolt if Kenny was asked to step aside? Lets face it, he would not be sacked. He would be given another role in the club.
You've swerved or missed me whole point. I've said it many times, this is far bigger than one man's job. This is about the future of the club. I don't want to see us turning into the sort of club that changes the manager every time things don't go the way we want.
In the the time scale needed to build a succesful club/team, Kenny's been in the job for 5 minutes. If we can't give a man who's given us so much the time he needs, what chance some outsider?

I make no bones about it, I loved Rafa Benitez.I was disgusted at how that man was treated by us. If we done the same to Kenny, that would be the top hat on it. I'm not saying Dalglish should be given unlimited time but to act now, or at the end of this season would be the sort of short term thinking that has fucked many a club. It would be going against everything we ever stood for and what brought us such long term dominance. We need to pack it in and look at the positives and the realities...
think of what the lad took over. Think of what he's got right so far. Stop moaning about every setback. Look at the progress made, cnsider the alternatives if Kenny wasn't given the job.
I'm actually becoming very tired of all this. It isn't the LFC support I wanted to be part of.  The revolt has already taken place. I don't know if I want to be a part of it any more. Going the match used to be one of the biggest pleasures in me life. It ended up being a chore. Even looking in here is becoming a pain now. If I wasn't stuck indoors with nothing else to do, I wouldn't be in here. Maybe you should read the OP again and give it a bit of thought... the revolt is becoming a perpetual part of the club. I'm really getting tired of it.
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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #260 on: April 9, 2012, 03:04:02 PM »

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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #261 on: April 9, 2012, 03:16:18 PM »
Cracking OP. In all honesty I've done a bit of moaning about the team myself this season, though I generally try to keep my comments constructive. I think perspective is important. I know it's easy to get caught up in the here and now and not be able to see beyond this season, or next season or the one after that.

I think you're right in saying that what defines us as a club is vastly more important than the success we acheive on the pitch (although that success is part of us and our football DNA as well).. I guess it's the relationship we have to that success (or lack of it) that is important. It's one thing wanting or hoping for success - expecting it and demanding it are altogether different things..

Not really sure where I'm going with this to be honest other than to say that I love the club and I'll love us wherever we finish in the table. What the team acheive on the pitch is not the main thing that defines my relationship with LFC, there's so much more to it than that...
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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #262 on: April 9, 2012, 03:43:34 PM »
Can we keep this on topic. We've discussed the problems of cross forum/Twitter/Facebook abuse etc. If it's all the same to everyone I'll delete the posts in question - separate issue. If anyone wants to discuss it can we do it in Feedback?

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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #263 on: April 9, 2012, 03:45:28 PM »
I don't think 'right of reply' or whatever is really the issue. How about everyone just not act like a complete dick in the first place.. The snide personal attacks (from all sides) don't really show anyone in a good light IMO.. Perhaps it would be best to just draw a line under it all and start with a clean slate..

But you forget that people have self inflated themselves with the toxic mixture of self importance and banality and must be heard.
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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #264 on: April 9, 2012, 03:47:49 PM »
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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #265 on: April 9, 2012, 03:56:28 PM »
Another eloquent, passionate and inspiring post to go with the OP and several others in this thread. This is the community that makes this club great, and I thank those of you who have taken the trouble to write your thoughts here.

I don't write much here, because I rarely have anything to say that adds to the wealth of human knowledge about football, and there are some wonderful contributors who usually say what I might quicker and more wisely. (Also the old adage applies, that 'tis better to keep your mouth shut and be thought a fool, than open it and confirm the fact). If I'm knowledgable about any sport, it's F1. I recall that my team, Ferrari, was for a long time the greatest of all, and then fell on a long, fallow period without championships (21 years) before eventually regaining utter domination. It took Schumacher 4 years to bring the championship back to Maranello. My father took us from Liverpool to Pittsburgh when I was young, so I support the Steelers. In the seventies, LFC and the Steelers were both the completely dominate teams of their respective sports - you can imagine my happy days. After 1979, the Steelers too fell on harsh times - in their case, 25 years of hurt before once again, great champions returned to their rightful place. Bill Cowher took four years to get them back to a Superbowl, and another nine to win one. My Terrible Towel became an icon of faith during those dark times, infused with heritage and the good friendship of the people of Pittsburgh I had known.

What's the common theme between these champions? They own and celebrate their history, they have a certain standard, a community, an almost religious faith in their eventual and inevitable success. (An arrogance that many choose to hate but tempered with the humility of having been through tough times too). They are also teams that stick by their choices, hold fast to their beliefs and build dynasties through their determination - if we do it our way, it will come good. There is no other way. They don't chop and change for the sake of it, or of they stray, they regret it and get back to The Way (Ferrari's bad period originated with excessive politicking and backbiting within) and stay true.

Great champions believe, and know their greatness is in the way they act not the silverware they pick up on the way. The trophies are a vindication of the way they are, the way they conduct themselves, the standards they believe in. The trophies are not who they are. In times of success, they attract many to the banner who may not understand, but some of them do so and the faith continues. Those that do not fall by the wayside soon enough, as newer, shinier winners draw their attention. Let them do so.

I support this club because I have no choice in the matter. I was born in Liverpool, and my father took me to Anfield. From that gift of birth, I have been blessed with memories and friends that are irreplaceable. Not just in my younger days when Kenny was my god on the field, but pretty much every year because great memories are not always purely sweet. And I saw Kenny lead this club through it's most terrible time at the cost of his health and his own dreams. And I have seen the people of this city, the fans of this great club, defeat global capitalists and the cancerous growths that came close to destroying what we hold dear. No other club could do that. No other people could do that. No other fans would believe they could do that.

This season is just the starting point of a new rise to glory, so long as we stick to our community, our beliefs and the man who exemplifies everything we have been, we are and we can be. (Let's face it, just by the law of averages, next season every wayward shot will now go in to balance the endless post hitting this year, so we will have a goal difference of +374 by Christmas  ;) ). We are, so to speak, approaching half-time in Istanbul: 3-0 down, and by all rights, a defeated people. Funny how a bit of belief can change everything, isn't it? Who is preparing to leave the stadium early, head down, and who is preparing to sing?

I steel myself with that belief and faith because there is no-one I would rather have at the helm when that glory comes than Kenny Dalglish. It will be all the sweeter because of the dark days we have to weather to get there. And the songs we will sing, oh the songs we will sing.


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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #266 on: April 9, 2012, 04:07:39 PM »
Going the match used to be one of the biggest pleasures in me life. It ended up being a chore. Even looking in here is becoming a pain now. If I wasn't stuck indoors with nothing else to do, I wouldn't be in here. Maybe you should read the OP again and give it a bit of thought... the revolt is becoming a perpetual part of the club. I'm really getting tired of it.

It's sad when one of the best posters on here (or any other forum, I'd wager) sounds so defeated. Having fought against the tide of G&H and inspired many of us to bare arms against the sea of troubles, to see FS, and other hugely respected Liverpool fans,  sit like iron kings watching the Kingdom fall into dust is quite conspicuous.

There has to be an emotional hangover from the huge internet fight against G&H, where posters on RAWK gained real life status and had an effect on the outside world and a direct impact on the ownership of our club.

Liverpool forums are still trying to negotiate identity post G&H, and I hope the insightful, funny and dependable posters see the rough seas through. There will always be idiots, self righteous posters on heat because somebody has thought their post was worthy of a debate or a quote, let them run out of steam.

It is the fans that set us apart, the great fans - the expectations, the knowledge, the humour, the history and the fight. If we lose these guardians of our club, then the masses will overrun us and there will be nothing to separate us from the clubs snapping at our heels. Missing out of finishing 'fourth' would be small fry to losing the lifeblood of our club.

Just a quick look to see the absolute dirge on sites such as The Liverpool Way shows how idiotic and moronic a vocal thrust of our fanbase is becoming. The mods on here do an amazing job to try and keep to the principles of our club. There always needs to be the counter balance, the voice of reason and tradition, and without posters such as FS then it would be lost.



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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #267 on: April 9, 2012, 04:35:59 PM »
Quote from: Big Red Richie link=topic=292110.msg10145336#msg10145336 date=1333901603


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When your team is winning, and playing well, you support them.

When your team is playing badly and losing, you support them twice as much. -- WHY?  -- Because that's when they need you the most.[/b]  :wave

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.....at the end of a storm...etc...and how then, the winning is a more euphoric feeling
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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #268 on: April 9, 2012, 04:57:51 PM »
It's sad when one of the best posters on here (or any other forum, I'd wager) sounds so defeated. Having fought against the tide of G&H and inspired many of us to bare arms against the sea of troubles, to see FS, and other hugely respected Liverpool fans,  sit like iron kings watching the Kingdom fall into dust is quite conspicuous.

There has to be an emotional hangover from the huge internet fight against G&H, where posters on RAWK gained real life status and had an effect on the outside world and a direct impact on the ownership of our club.

Liverpool forums are still trying to negotiate identity post G&H, and I hope the insightful, funny and dependable posters see the rough seas through. There will always be idiots, self righteous posters on heat because somebody has thought their post was worthy of a debate or a quote, let them run out of steam.

It is the fans that set us apart, the great fans - the expectations, the knowledge, the humour, the history and the fight. If we lose these guardians of our club, then the masses will overrun us and there will be nothing to separate us from the clubs snapping at our heels. Missing out of finishing 'fourth' would be small fry to losing the lifeblood of our club.

Just a quick look to see the absolute dirge on sites such as The Liverpool Way shows how idiotic and moronic a vocal thrust of our fanbase is becoming. The mods on here do an amazing job to try and keep to the principles of our club. There always needs to be the counter balance, the voice of reason and tradition, and without posters such as FS then it would be lost.

Really good points there.

Many fans were essentially a part of a revolution.  Whenever that happens in any walk of life it becomes difficult for them to return to the old ways of 'just following'.  There's a need to be active, to play a part.

I still don't feel there is a problem with constructive criticism on forums like this, it's when the comments move into the 'get rid' and 'manager x may have to go' arena that it's just plain stupid.

 

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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #269 on: April 9, 2012, 05:26:22 PM »


It is the fans that set us apart, the great fans - the expectations, the knowledge, the humour, the history and the fight. If we lose these guardians of our club, then the masses will overrun us and there will be nothing to separate us from the clubs snapping at our heels. Missing out of finishing 'fourth' would be small fry to losing the lifeblood of our club.

Just a quick look to see the absolute dirge on sites such as The Liverpool Way shows how idiotic and moronic a vocal thrust of our fanbase is becoming. The mods on here do an amazing job to try and keep to the principles of our club. There always needs to be the counter balance, the voice of reason and tradition, and without posters such as FS then it would be lost.





And this is the crux of the matter, as Rhi put it so well in her opening post- though she noted there is a difference between "supporters" and "fans". To a lot of the people who go to Anfield, we are nothing but a brand to wear, a name to throw about- like Dolce & Gabbanna, Abercrombie & Fitch etc. There's no concern about whether we win or lose, it was a day out at Anfield. It's inconsequential to them. It's the two grown men sat next to me taking photos on their blackberries and not giving a shit about the result or the performance- then only moaning how much it cost them. It's the lad behind me and his girlfriend slagging off "the number 14" but not knowing who he is.  It's easy talk from people who don't get what it means to live and breathe a team, to be there through thick and thin, in for a penny in for a pound, through the wind and the rain.
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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #270 on: April 9, 2012, 05:34:30 PM »
That's a good OP Rhi. Though I don't think there's much wrong with disagreeing with decisions that the manager makes. Yes, people can continue to support the team (I don't see why anyone wouldn't) whilst not being convinced with certain things and I think it's ok if it's rational and not kneejerk. As it is, we're obviously going through a difficult time but we all need to support the team through it and give our management and the team the patience, respect and support they need to fix it.
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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #271 on: April 9, 2012, 05:47:32 PM »
Brilliant OP Rhi. I am sick and tired of the all moaners.
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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #272 on: April 9, 2012, 05:57:06 PM »
The King's Men. Good luck to them, but it might be easier to put Humpty back together again.

But FS, isn't this the whole point of this thread - and part of the problem?

We get lifelong fans like you, who, God knows, have fought tooth and nail to keep it from being sent into oblivion and who have been the heartbeat of the club, making comments like that.

Don't get me wrong, I mean no criticism, I don't criticise anyone for feeling that way, it is understandable, but unless people are prepared to try and put those feeling aside, to stop feeling that everything is impossible and not worth the effort then we accept that we don't care.

You said in a previous post "The mentality needs to change. But if we expect the players to get their heads down, work hard and put it right, well, shouldn't we expect the same of ourselves?"

It is time we all put aside the past, the negativity and the defeatism, that's what we should all be bloody sick of.
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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #273 on: April 9, 2012, 05:57:32 PM »
I'll tell you what, I'd hate to be in the trenches with some of our supporters. Sorry. Not supporters. Fans.

I'm fucking sick of them. I'm sick of all the whining and bitching before a ball has been kicked. I swear to God, yesterday you'd have thought we had a team of Sunday League players on the pitch the way some of them were going on when the team sheet was announced. And then they have the audacity to expect those very same players who they can't give a little bit of fucking encouragement and respect to, to perform to the best of their abilities? How is it not obvious that it's part of the problem?

But I'm glad I've seen what they have to say. I'm glad because it's gradually been grating on me. Until I realised... This isn't right. The way I've been acting isn't right.

It's been going on all season. If we're not whining about Carroll, we're moaning about Carragher. If we're not moaning about Carragher, we're bitching about Adam. If we're not bitching about Adam, we're despairing at Henderson. And all the while we expect them to turn up, perform at the highest level, and "entertain" us. I include myself in that. I'm a bit ashamed of how I reacted to some of our players earlier this season. I'm even a bit ashamed at how I treated Roy Hodgson. What we've become is not what I was brought up on. What we've become is not how I was taught to be a Liverpool supporter.

I've supported Liverpool FC for as long as I can remember. I've been going to the match regularly for a decade. A decade that's seen us have four different managers, more cups than most clubs could ever dream of, more of the best nights in European history than any supporter has a right to live through, more angst than we should ever have to endure with our club, and more politics than should ever be a part of football. But we've always tried to do things in the right way, as supporters. I'd have backed Gerard Houllier to the last. I'd have fought to the death for Rafa Benitez. I didn't give Roy Hodgson the respect that a Liverpool manager deserved, but then we all know the mitigating circumstances there. And now we have Kenny. And I absolutely refuse to turn on him. No matter how bad things get.

They tell me that if we continue on this path then we're building for mediocrity, and they tell me that the players we have are not good enough for our club. And you know what? They might even be right. But there are more important things than that. And our identity as a club, the way we support our team, the things that are unique about Liverpool FC are more important than short term success. Right now a lot of us have lost sight of that. I include myself in that. Because I've acted like a c*nt this season too. But for me it ends now.

"Ah, but if we let things go much further, we'll end up like Villa, a mid-table ex-giant", we'd say, like drama queens. But that's all bollocks really. We played in a European Cup Final five years ago. We won it two years before that. And that was out of nowhere. "But we'd won the treble not long before that..." God. If only there was a comparison to make there, somewhere...

Anyway. I'm not arguing for the "patience" that some seem to think is such a terrible trait. But respect? Respect is something we fucking owe this club. This club that has given us some of the best days of our lives. I've seen them all on Twitter, with their sarcasm and their bitching about the arl arses who try to make these points. But you know what? The arl arses are fucking right. Too many of our supporters are spoiled brats when it comes to football, and they're becoming an absolute joke.

Some of the things that make our club so special are respect, patience (yeah, fucking patience), long-term vision, and togetherness. There are far, FAR too many of us who have forgotten that in the last few years of civil war. It's time to put a stop to acting like kids with a sense of entitlement. It's as much our responsibility to support the team and the club as it is theirs to perform. It's our job to be there - in the good times AND the bad. And the sad truth of the matter is, we are in much more danger of becoming one of those midtable teams in terms of culture than we are of ever becoming them in terms of success.

So next time you start to type out that sarcastic post or tweet, or the next time you want to stamp your feet about Carragher being in the starting line-up (as if you've watched the lads train all week and know what's what), have a look in the mirror and ask yourself whether that's really how a supporter should be acting?

I really have had enough of the negativity surrounding the club. I'm going to Wembley next week, and I'm going there expecting our players to fucking steamroller the Blueshite all the way back to their shitty shed. And if you're not? Then honestly? You're fucking doing it wrong.

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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #274 on: April 9, 2012, 05:59:43 PM »
It's sad when one of the best posters on here (or any other forum, I'd wager) sounds so defeated. Having fought against the tide of G&H and inspired many of us to bare arms against the sea of troubles, to see FS, and other hugely respected Liverpool fans,  sit like iron kings watching the Kingdom fall into dust is quite conspicuous.

There has to be an emotional hangover from the huge internet fight against G&H, where posters on RAWK gained real life status and had an effect on the outside world and a direct impact on the ownership of our club.

Liverpool forums are still trying to negotiate identity post G&H, and I hope the insightful, funny and dependable posters see the rough seas through. There will always be idiots, self righteous posters on heat because somebody has thought their post was worthy of a debate or a quote, let them run out of steam.

It is the fans that set us apart, the great fans - the expectations, the knowledge, the humour, the history and the fight. If we lose these guardians of our club, then the masses will overrun us and there will be nothing to separate us from the clubs snapping at our heels. Missing out of finishing 'fourth' would be small fry to losing the lifeblood of our club.

Just a quick look to see the absolute dirge on sites such as The Liverpool Way shows how idiotic and moronic a vocal thrust of our fanbase is becoming. The mods on here do an amazing job to try and keep to the principles of our club. There always needs to be the counter balance, the voice of reason and tradition, and without posters such as FS then it would be lost.


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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #275 on: April 9, 2012, 07:10:05 PM »
You have a point, but I honestly can't remember booing like at the West Ham game when it put us back on top of the table. I have never seen a player scapegoated and treated like Lucas was. And for all the moaning in the stands and in the pubs after the games, I can't remember when it gave the board chance to get shut of our most succesful manager in donkies.
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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #276 on: April 9, 2012, 07:14:08 PM »
I am still shocked when I think back about the reaction around the ground after that game

Why? A fair amount of noise was being directed at the people booing.

And someone was volleyed down the stairs of the 300 blocks for shouting shite. I bet he bought all his tickets in the Main Stand after that.
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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #277 on: April 9, 2012, 07:22:34 PM »
the twelth man turns yer luck around...we know that...everyone else knows that...no argument there then...however
i coined a phrase the other day that ive been trying to put my finger on for ages...its all about the moaning whinging and whining and how it transmits...how it just brings in all that bad luck...its a strange connection thats hard for your'e average fan to except...but its true..'.the thirteenth man'...that bastard shouldnt be allowed anywhere near anfield ...when hes around...bad things seem to happen!!...do one please....youre not welcome
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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #278 on: April 9, 2012, 07:25:06 PM »
Why? A fair amount of noise was being directed at the people booing.

And someone was volleyed down the stairs of the 300 blocks for shouting shite. I bet he bought all his tickets in the Main Stand after that.
Because the things you said were visible/audible only at Anfield. All that Motd/Sky showed was the booing. That gave the media (and purslow) ammo to go after Rafa.

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Re: Support - You're Doing it Wrong
« Reply #279 on: April 9, 2012, 07:41:10 PM »
But FS, isn't this the whole point of this thread - and part of the problem?

We get lifelong fans like you, who, God knows, have fought tooth and nail to keep it from being sent into oblivion and who have been the heartbeat of the club, making comments like that.

Don't get me wrong, I mean no criticism, I don't criticise anyone for feeling that way, it is understandable, but unless people are prepared to try and put those feeling aside, to stop feeling that everything is impossible and not worth the effort then we accept that we don't care.

You said in a previous post "The mentality needs to change. But if we expect the players to get their heads down, work hard and put it right, well, shouldn't we expect the same of ourselves?"

It is time we all put aside the past, the negativity and the defeatism, that's what we should all be bloody sick of.
As you know mate, I stopped going the match because it became a constant battle towards the end of Rafa's time. I was sick and tired of arguing with other reds. And again as you know, I wouldn't be in here if it wasn't for my current circumstances.
Not having a pop, but seeing you asked in public, I felt I needed to answer the same way. Have a look at me first post in this thread. I stand by it. It's too late. It's the way it is now. Some people nowadays would actually prefer Dalglish to fail so they can be proved right in the forums.
That post will no doubt bring the usual... it's only a forum. It doesn't matter. When we know quite well how much damage can be caused by all the moaning on the forums and phone ins.
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