Sorry lads,shocking night,2 sent off.After the 1st one it gave me 1/2 control of 'any' player with pig-swill and kept switching the same player between me and pig swill.We were both baffled by it. 
when someone selects the any player they control all the players not used to the others, if a player is sent off, that person then does not have his pro to use so is automatically assigned the any players with the person who already has the any slot, hence you both had control.
bottom line is dont get sent off lol cuz it screws it up at the back. some good games tonight tho, everyone played well at somepoint, but pig i know i mention it alot, but that guy using the any slot, is the reason behind most of our wins, i really would not like to play him one on one on fifa lol