Thanks guys for an interesting discussion.......it could have degenerated into mud-slinging but instead there are many good posts.
The jobs issue is one that I think needs to be addressed first. The ROI wouldn't be able to afford to pay for the public sector jobs. Neither do I think a UI with no border with NI would work........so forget about the border poll as it doesn't for me work.
Ok so we voted to stay within the EU so why not float that idea first. An Independent NI which gets grants from the EU (and USA) to kick-start a new economy. Would the EU do this though? I think once the public sector overhead issue is solved then other flexible ideas could be explored.
I cannot see a UI being a solution as it would not be accepted nor do I think the ROI would change its constitution. One radical idea would be for the 4 provinces to be self-governing under a central government, which is the USA model. An agreement would need to be put into place to protect all sections of the island......mainly catholic and protestant minorities in certain areas. If the minorities are not protected then they will just distil into a smaller area and erect their own borders (like no-go areas). The ROI would need to be dissolved in this model.......no flag or national anthem.....or a new flag etc. I can't see unionists being happy with the ROI flag etc.
I very much doubt if the ROI would change so I cannot see the above idea being a runner.
All I have left is an independent NI where both sides are protected and work together. There would be strong links to ROI and to GB as this is where the majority of trade would be. It would take a huge investment and I don't know where the money would come from. What if one side tried to dominate and war broke out.......nobody could stop it.
I really is difficult and to be honest the current model is probably best but with a plan to be self-sufficient.
The ROI has already changed it's constitution when we signed the Good Friday agreement. We changed it so that we it no longer made any claims regarding the north, thereby protecting NI peoples right to self determination. That mightn't sound like much, but it was unthinkable a generation earlier.
Southern Irish people are an adaptable bunch, you might be surprised what we'd be agreeable to. You only have to look at how readily we took up EU membership and all it entailed, including giving up our old currency.
I agree that the ROI in it's current form would have to be essentially 're-made', and if that meant a new flag or new anthem, I'd have no problem with that. I could totally see how the tricolour could be problematic for some people up there, given that it represents different things to them, to what it represents down here.
Our anthem is a dirge and has needed binning for years. It's too rooted in our troubled past and says little or nothing about our present and future.
North and south we're essentially an island of English speaking Europeans with close cultural and economic ties to the UK and US. So given we've that in common, it would be a sad state of affairs if everyone on this island couldn't just find a way to get on with it and make it work, without letting old tribal beefs get in the way, if it ever came to pass.
Being Irish means different things to different people down here, and we've a much more culturally diverse population than we had 20 years ago, so we're not averse to change or having new neighbours. This country has already changed in many ways in the past 20 years or so.
I'm not sure what you mean by 'protection of minorities'. Protection from what? People down here don't live in protestant areas or catholic areas. I'd like to think that things like that would become a thing of the past in the north over time in a united Ireland. Maybe I'm dreaming, but I'd like to think many protestant people would move south over time, as they'd have the whole island to call home.
Maybe over a generation or two, people from the North would feel less of a need to identify as catholic or protestant, as it would no longer have the political relevance which it has done for so long. People down here don't really identify themselves as catholic or protestant because there's very little reason to. Apologies if all this sounds totally mad to you mate, I'm just thinking aloud here.
The economic implications and the legal/political mechanics of it all are too complicated for the likes of me to understand, and I'm sure it wouldn't be simple. But compared to the formation of the EU for instance, or the unification of Germany in the early 90s, it's small potatoes logistically speaking.
The whole process would have to be done gradually over a number of years before it was finalized. It couldn't just happen over night on the basis of referendum results.