Topic: Cancer

[mikeb58]

A Basal Cell Carcinoma, is not known to spread. The roots of the primary site can be deep, such was the recent case of the BCC on the side of my nose.

Once that is cancer is fully removed, that particular site should remain safe, however BCC's are known to appear on other parts of the body, these are new cancers not secondaries from a previous primary site.

A BCC is the least threatening form of skin cancer, but it should never be ignored. Though on the surface it may just appear as a small annoying spot or lesion which refuses to heal, deep down it will erode and invade deeper tissues, resulting in disfiguration if left untreated.

Everyone should check the symptoms out early as possible, something I didn't do myself.

[mikeb58]

If I wanted a full body check of all my moles could my GP do this? Or would I have to go private?

GP...absolutely, the ones you can't see for yourself would need the occasional check in particular.

If the GP was a little concerned over the condition of a mole he would refer you to a specialist or maybe directly for a biopsy is he was overly concerned.

But deffo get a check up, nothing at all to lose.

[mikeb58]

On a lighter note, I was a bit worried the other day, the scar on my cheek after my surgery seemed shimmery and bitty.

Gave it a good clean and massaged it with some oil one of the nurses I work with gave me...haha bits of glitter had lodged in it after the Bowie tribute night I went to the other night.

Couldn't move for glittery people, some of it must have made its way on to my face!

[red_Mark1980]

My mums cousin  ( who she's very close to) has pancreatic cancer.

Her 2nd Grandchild is due and her 2nd daughter is getting married.

You absolute bastard

[Slightly Less Mediocre Baron Bennekov]

My turn now...

I've been diagnosed with cancer in my right testicle.

I'm going to the hospital tomorrow to talk to the doc about the progress will be from here. I've had an ultra scan and the tumor is appr. 3x4x2 cm. No biopsy has been made yet but the doc who scanned me said that based on her experience in scanning testies for tumors there was nothing benign at all in that tumor.

So I'm having that one nut removed and hopefully that'll be it. After the surgery I'll have a full body CT scan to see if it has spread or not.

This fucker took my granny at 59 and my dad at 56 but hell no if it's taking me at 43! 

[reddebs]

My turn now...

I've been diagnosed with cancer in my right testicle.

I'm going to the hospital tomorrow to talk to the doc about the progress will be from here. I've had an ultra scan and the tumor is appr. 3x4x2 cm. No biopsy has been made yet but the doc who scanned me said that based on her experience in scanning testies for tumors there was nothing benign at all in that tumor.

So I'm having that one nut removed and hopefully that'll be it. After the surgery I'll have a full body CT scan to see if it has spread or not.

This fucker took my granny at 59 and my dad at 56 but hell no if it's taking me at 43! 

Hope it's good news mate.

[John C]

My turn now...

Sorry to hear that mate, our thoughts are with you. Good luck with any treatment you receive.

[Mag Hull]

Wanted to post this, regarding rarer types of cancer - got diagnosed for one of these last year and can totally recommend website MPN Voice for brilliant support:

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/lifestyle/wellbeing/healthadvice/11797246/We-must-not-forget-patients-with-rarer-cancers.html

[Ziltoid]

My dad's cousins daughter died a week back - she was 46 - same age as me.  Didn't know her but still brings it home.

[Robbies Girl]

My brother has just had the 6mth all clear after having a kidney removed due to a Large tumor. Thing is he has become seriously depressed and anxious and is now taking antidepressants. I've been told this is common with people who survive cancer. It's unexpected as totally out of character for him, I'm wondering if there are any other survivors on here with a similar experience?

[Red_Mist]

My dad's cousins daughter died a week back - she was 46 - same age as me.  Didn't know her but still brings it home.

My wife's sister's just been diagnosed with breast cancer - 46 as well. Too young. She's really positive though. Had first dose of chemo, two more to go, then op to remove the breast. She just wants to get on with it and is carrying on as normal. Strong girl.

[John C]

My wife's sister's just been diagnosed with breast cancer - 46 as well. Too young. She's really positive though. Had first dose of chemo, two more to go, then op to remove the breast. She just wants to get on with it and is carrying on as normal. Strong girl.

Some people are truly wonderful when they endure such a journey through this horrid disease mate. Good luck to her.

[Crosby Nick]

My turn now...

I've been diagnosed with cancer in my right testicle.

I'm going to the hospital tomorrow to talk to the doc about the progress will be from here. I've had an ultra scan and the tumor is appr. 3x4x2 cm. No biopsy has been made yet but the doc who scanned me said that based on her experience in scanning testies for tumors there was nothing benign at all in that tumor.

So I'm having that one nut removed and hopefully that'll be it. After the surgery I'll have a full body CT scan to see if it has spread or not.

This fucker took my granny at 59 and my dad at 56 but hell no if it's taking me at 43! 

Not looked in here for a while and only just seen this. The very best of luck to you mate, hope treatment is going well.

[Red_Mist]

Some people are truly wonderful when they endure such a journey through this horrid disease mate. Good luck to her.

You're right mate. Cheers John.

[red_Mark1980]

Occasionally pop in here. Lost my Dad to bowel cancer in 2008.

Hope everyone is OK and family members and friends are.

Noel Edmonds though...what a melt.

[Always_A_Red]

Ashamed to say that I've never ventured into this thread. The thought of it terrifies me to be honest and for that I am truly sorry to all of you who are fighting this truly horrible disease. I should have offered support earlier.

Yesterday evening, my father in law was diagnosed with liver metastasis. He has to have a few more tests but I think it's clear that he's in big trouble. No timeline has been given but 'Google' (the worst thing to look at) says that best case is 18 months and worst is 3 months. 3 fucking months!

My wife is in bits, my Mother in Law is putting on a brave face but all I can think of is how my father in law must be feeling. How do you deal with that?? I'm in tears just typing this. A 30 year old man completely ripped apart. I need help on how I can help? What can I say to make him feel supported and loved? I feel helpless.

He's honestly the nicest, down to earth human being you'll ever meet. A great husband, brilliant father and a truly lovely grandfather to my two daughters (7&5) - the whole thought of what is happening just doesn't make sense to me. He's only 63. Retired 18 months ago, worked so hard all his life to get himself in a position to 'enjoy' his retirement and then BAM, nope sorry, its all over. This is what we all work hard towards is it not?? Its not fair. Fuck it all.

So angry and truly devastated all in one. 

To everyone who is fighting, my prayers are with you.

[Crosby Nick]

Sorry to hear that mate and as you say, it's so random and unfair. Hope your wife and family are OK.

[KennyDaggers]

My turn now...

I've been diagnosed with cancer in my right testicle.

I'm going to the hospital tomorrow to talk to the doc about the progress will be from here. I've had an ultra scan and the tumor is appr. 3x4x2 cm. No biopsy has been made yet but the doc who scanned me said that based on her experience in scanning testies for tumors there was nothing benign at all in that tumor.

So I'm having that one nut removed and hopefully that'll be it. After the surgery I'll have a full body CT scan to see if it has spread or not.

This fucker took my granny at 59 and my dad at 56 but hell no if it's taking me at 43! 

I've never got involved I this thread until today so not seen this before.

I lost my mum far too early to an aggressive cancer less than 6 months ago so have been deeply effected by it.

I wish you all the best pal, I really do. Your mentality is great just stay positive and you'll see the bas*ard off. Don't let it beat you even at the low times.

[Always_A_Red]

Sorry to hear that mate and as you say, it's so random and unfair. Hope your wife and family are OK.

Thank you mate. Much appreciated

My wife's sister's just been diagnosed with breast cancer - 46 as well. Too young. She's really positive though. Had first dose of chemo, two more to go, then op to remove the breast. She just wants to get on with it and is carrying on as normal. Strong girl.

That's truly inspiring. My thoughts are with her and your family

[KennyDaggers]

Ashamed to say that I've never ventured into this thread. The thought of it terrifies me to be honest and for that I am truly sorry to all of you who are fighting this truly horrible disease. I should have offered support earlier.

Yesterday evening, my father in law was diagnosed with liver metastasis. He has to have a few more tests but I think it's clear that he's in big trouble. No timeline has been given but 'Google' (the worst thing to look at) says that best case is 18 months and worst is 3 months. 3 fucking months!

My wife is in bits, my Mother in Law is putting on a brave face but all I can think of is how my father in law must be feeling. How do you deal with that?? I'm in tears just typing this. A 30 year old man completely ripped apart. I need help on how I can help? What can I say to make him feel supported and loved? I feel helpless.

He's honestly the nicest, down to earth human being you'll ever meet. A great husband, brilliant father and a truly lovely grandfather to my two daughters (7&5) - the whole thought of what is happening just doesn't make sense to me. He's only 63. Retired 18 months ago, worked so hard all his life to get himself in a position to 'enjoy' his retirement and then BAM, nope sorry, its all over. This is what we all work hard towards is it not?? Its not fair. Fuck it all.

So angry and truly devastated all in one. 

To everyone who is fighting, my prayers are with you.

As my post above mate, just stay strong. Don't let it beat you. There's a cure for cancer just around the corner. I've seen wonder drugs have miraculous mid term effects (18 months of normality and genuine belief it's give fur good etc) and I truly believe there getting closer to the cure.

Stay strong, fight it, even at the low times just hang in there and don't give up. They'll find that cure very soon, they're very close in the shorter term now.

[telekon]

Ashamed to say that I've never ventured into this thread. The thought of it terrifies me to be honest and for that I am truly sorry to all of you who are fighting this truly horrible disease. I should have offered support earlier.

Yesterday evening, my father in law was diagnosed with liver metastasis. He has to have a few more tests but I think it's clear that he's in big trouble. No timeline has been given but 'Google' (the worst thing to look at) says that best case is 18 months and worst is 3 months. 3 fucking months!

My wife is in bits, my Mother in Law is putting on a brave face but all I can think of is how my father in law must be feeling. How do you deal with that?? I'm in tears just typing this. A 30 year old man completely ripped apart. I need help on how I can help? What can I say to make him feel supported and loved? I feel helpless.

He's honestly the nicest, down to earth human being you'll ever meet. A great husband, brilliant father and a truly lovely grandfather to my two daughters (7&5) - the whole thought of what is happening just doesn't make sense to me. He's only 63. Retired 18 months ago, worked so hard all his life to get himself in a position to 'enjoy' his retirement and then BAM, nope sorry, its all over. This is what we all work hard towards is it not?? Its not fair. Fuck it all.

So angry and truly devastated all in one. 

To everyone who is fighting, my prayers are with you.

Very similar to my dad. He passed away at 62, retired two years before that to enjoy life. The most caring and loving person you could ever meet. He passed away a year and a half ago. After it spread to his liver he got about 6 months. He was also a granddad of a little kid.

What you can do is simple. Be there for your wife. That's all you can do and it is truly the best thing you can do. Don't talk too much about death or how long he will have. Try to live. And share life with him because he is alive.

[Ciara (with a capital "C")]

Ashamed to say that I've never ventured into this thread. The thought of it terrifies me to be honest and for that I am truly sorry to all of you who are fighting this truly horrible disease. I should have offered support earlier.

Yesterday evening, my father in law was diagnosed with liver metastasis. He has to have a few more tests but I think it's clear that he's in big trouble. No timeline has been given but 'Google' (the worst thing to look at) says that best case is 18 months and worst is 3 months. 3 fucking months!

My wife is in bits, my Mother in Law is putting on a brave face but all I can think of is how my father in law must be feeling. How do you deal with that?? I'm in tears just typing this. A 30 year old man completely ripped apart. I need help on how I can help? What can I say to make him feel supported and loved? I feel helpless.

He's honestly the nicest, down to earth human being you'll ever meet. A great husband, brilliant father and a truly lovely grandfather to my two daughters (7&5) - the whole thought of what is happening just doesn't make sense to me. He's only 63. Retired 18 months ago, worked so hard all his life to get himself in a position to 'enjoy' his retirement and then BAM, nope sorry, its all over. This is what we all work hard towards is it not?? Its not fair. Fuck it all.

So angry and truly devastated all in one. 

To everyone who is fighting, my prayers are with you.

Sorry to hear all of that - that's really, really sad. And so unfair.

As to how your father-in-law is feeling, that's so hard to even confront. But there is every chance that his biggest concern and worry is all of you - his wife, children, grandchildren etc... he might not even be thinking of himself at this moment.

I hope this turns out as well as it possible can for you all.

[rob1966]

Seen mention of rare cancers. Lost a childhood friend to myeloma 4 months ago, I'd known him since I was 5. I'd never even heard of myeloma until my boss at work was diagnosed in 2011. His transplant worked and he survived, it's messed him right up but at least he's alive and able to live a fairly decent life. My mates transplant failed and there was nothing they could do for him. Awful for him and his family.

[6BigCups]

I had testicular cancer last year. Had an operation and a round of chemotherapy and I'm currently cancer free and feel better than ever.

If anyone is going through the same themselves, give me a shout and I'll advise you as best as I can.

[Dubred]

I had testicular cancer last year. Had an operation and a round of chemotherapy and I'm currently cancer free and feel better than ever.

If anyone is going through the same themselves, give me a shout and I'll advise you as best as I can.

Jesus mate, just saw your age.  Thats horrendous to have gone through so young.

Delighted all is well now though.

My Aunts cancer has come back in less than 3yrs.  Different place(s) in her body.

She's a remarkable woman - so strong and positive.

We're so fucking worried because the truth is when it comes back I guess its not a good sign, but we're hoping if anyone can beat it, she can.

Jesus you'd think we'd have cracked the code by now with all the research 

[Red_Mist]

That's truly inspiring. My thoughts are with her and your family

Thanks mate, and likewise for you and yours.

She had her hair shaved off the other day but looks absolutely boss in her new wig! She also squeezed in a week's hols in New Quay in Wales in between treatments and the weather gods shined on her big time

[6BigCups]

Jesus mate, just saw your age.  Thats horrendous to have gone through so young.

Delighted all is well now though.

My Aunts cancer has come back in less than 3yrs.  Different place(s) in her body.

She's a remarkable woman - so strong and positive.

We're so fucking worried because the truth is when it comes back I guess its not a good sign, but we're hoping if anyone can beat it, she can.

Jesus you'd think we'd have cracked the code by now with all the research 

Funny, I got back from Afghanistan in one piece barely 12 months prior to it. Just as you think you've dodged all of the bullets, another one comes heading your way!

Thanks.

Nowadays the treatment is pretty good. I'm sure she'll pull through as she did the first time.

[Jimmy Conway]

My wife has found a lump in her breast. She's currently breast feeding our 4 month old, so we're hoping its just a blocked duct (which is common when breastfeeding). Off to get it checkout out tomorrow.

[Slightly Less Mediocre Baron Bennekov]

Hope it's good news mate.

Sorry to hear that mate, our thoughts are with you. Good luck with any treatment you receive.

Not looked in here for a while and only just seen this. The very best of luck to you mate, hope treatment is going well.

Thanks for your words of encouragement all!

I've had my right testicle removed and had a CT scan and the end result is I'm out of the woods!  

After the surgery I went home only to return to the hospital the very next day with a blood poisoning galloping in my body. That meant 5 days in the hospital with antibiotics at full force. Went home again on a tuesday evening and woke up on Friday with blood oozing from the scar. Ambulance back to the hospital and stayed there for another 36 hours.

The answer from the onchologists was clear: All had been removed and I'm going back for a check up in the autumn and again next spring where I'll have a CT scan again. If there's nothing to see then they'll stop following me.

Needless to say I'm chuffed!!

Thoughts to all of you who are battling this bastard or have someone dear battling it.

[terrible suits]

Realised I never gave an update to this from December 2011.

So, I wanted to post a follow-up regarding what I had posted about back in August, with my cancer and surgery then. While the doctors were confident they had gotten everything out of there, and that the lymph nodes that had shown up as irregular but that a biopsy showed nothing in them should go back to normal, I was still kind of holding my breath until my first follow-up CT scan.

Well, I had my follow-up CT scan the other week, and went in to meet with the doctor the other day, and everything from it came back clean. No more signs on cancer, lymph nodes went back to normal, everything looks good. So, I feel very relieved.

Of course, I'm going to have to continue to go for CT scans periodically, and it could reoccur (although the cancer it ended up being after they removed it and tested it fully was one with a lower reoccurrence rate than the one they had initially thought it was, so, that was good too), so that's something I'm going to have to deal with for a while. Still, as I said, I had been kind of holding my breath since the surgery until this follow-up to know that they really did get it all out of there, and feel much better now that I know that they did.

Thank you very much to everyone for all the kind thoughts and everything, it's been very much appreciated. And thoughts and prayers to everyone else dealing with this sort of thing as well.

About 5 years cancer-free now - last scan was about a year ago, so 4 years at that point, next scan will be in a couple of months at which point it'll be 5 years. After that they're probably going to move the scans back to every other year, they're not concerned about it recurring (which has been the case since after the surgery, when they got clean margins around what they removed - and I didn't lose my arm). So, yay for cancer staying away.

Of course, I've hardly even been thinking about the cancer since my stroke in mid-2013 (and things are much worse off from that) (wonder if there's a stroke thread on here). But, yay for cancer not coming back at least.

[Jimmy Conway]

It is, or it can herald a bout of mastitis. Always always worth checking though. I trust all is OK since you haven't posted an update? Hope so.

Yeah, all good it was a blocked duct, early mastitis. Bought of antibiotics and all good.

Scary shit though. Didn't get much sleep.

[Bioluminescence]

Thanks for your words of encouragement all!

I've had my right testicle removed and had a CT scan and the end result is I'm out of the woods!  

After the surgery I went home only to return to the hospital the very next day with a blood poisoning galloping in my body. That meant 5 days in the hospital with antibiotics at full force. Went home again on a tuesday evening and woke up on Friday with blood oozing from the scar. Ambulance back to the hospital and stayed there for another 36 hours.

The answer from the onchologists was clear: All had been removed and I'm going back for a check up in the autumn and again next spring where I'll have a CT scan again. If there's nothing to see then they'll stop following me.

Needless to say I'm chuffed!!

Thoughts to all of you who are battling this bastard or have someone dear battling it.

Missed this first time around. Glad to hear things seem ok, I'll keep my fingers crossed for you.

[Bioluminescence]

Realised I never gave an update to this from December 2011.

About 5 years cancer-free now - last scan was about a year ago, so 4 years at that point, next scan will be in a couple of months at which point it'll be 5 years. After that they're probably going to move the scans back to every other year, they're not concerned about it recurring (which has been the case since after the surgery, when they got clean margins around what they removed - and I didn't lose my arm). So, yay for cancer staying away.

Of course, I've hardly even been thinking about the cancer since my stroke in mid-2013 (and things are much worse off from that) (wonder if there's a stroke thread on here). But, yay for cancer not coming back at least.

Great news  Always great to reach these milestones, it's such a relief. Sorry to hear about the stroke though.

[6BigCups]

I have my first annual CT scan in about 2 weeks time. This along with the 3 monthly visits always bring a discomforting reminder of my own vulnerability.

[vladis voice]

You'll be fine mate, had the same as you and bennekov nearly 8 years ago now, first couple of years I got really worked up before every follow up and convinced myself there was recurrence....it gets easier (probably freak out every couple of years now) but it never quite goes away fully

[telekon]

Thanks for your words of encouragement all!

I've had my right testicle removed and had a CT scan and the end result is I'm out of the woods!  

After the surgery I went home only to return to the hospital the very next day with a blood poisoning galloping in my body. That meant 5 days in the hospital with antibiotics at full force. Went home again on a tuesday evening and woke up on Friday with blood oozing from the scar. Ambulance back to the hospital and stayed there for another 36 hours.

The answer from the onchologists was clear: All had been removed and I'm going back for a check up in the autumn and again next spring where I'll have a CT scan again. If there's nothing to see then they'll stop following me.

Needless to say I'm chuffed!!

Thoughts to all of you who are battling this bastard or have someone dear battling it.

Was a bit worried since you didn't post anything for such a long time after your previous post in here.

Great to hear mate! Well done!

[Slightly Less Mediocre Baron Bennekov]

Was a bit worried since you didn't post anything for such a long time after your previous post in here.

Great to hear mate! Well done!

I know...

[terrible suits]

Great news  Always great to reach these milestones, it's such a relief. Sorry to hear about the stroke though.

Missed this before, but thanks for the encouragement and thoughts 

[paul211b]

My Dad has been told he has Prostate cancer and cancer in his bones.
The Doctor has said about using hemp oil.  Can anyone give me more information on what is the best and how to get in the UK? 

Do we want a high THC or a high CBD? 

[Barrowred]

You can get hemp oil in  Asda and Tesco, it's sold under the name of Good Oil. It's in the cooking oil section and is usually around a fiver for a 500ml bottle.

Sorry to hear about your dad.